Years ago, my friend Sebastian wrote a post about how to get laid in 30 days.
Over the years, I’ve been given credit for this post multiple times. All by accident.
HOWEVER – I’ve recently decided to not only update his awesome post…
… I’m going to give you the clearest, easiest, most comprehensive way to get laid in the next 30 days. Period.
Follow this guide and you will have sex with a beautiful woman by the end of the next month. Guaranteed.
We start with the basic ideas:
This Will Be “Grunt Work.”
Magic bullets work in movies. They seldom work in real life.
Because while there are tricks you can use to seduce beautiful women in the flesh…
… Most of the real sexual magic is called “Making a woman attracted to you.” And this magic is really a mixture of intention, time and energy.
(This doesn’t make it “hard to do,” as you’ll see in just a minute…)
We Start With Little Things Which Make HUGE Improvements In Your Attractiveness To Women…
1. Enroll in a gym. Make sure you barter down the membership costs and don’t sign a contract. A gym membership is flexible in price and a great place to meet women. However, you’re using your membership to…
2. Begin working out at least 3 times a week. Don’t know how? Visit a bodybuilding forum and steal any routine you can. Why? Because a healthier body means a healthier brain. And both are more attractive to women.
3. Get clothes that fit you well. Don’t know how? Don’t worry: Go to a clothing store that you think is reasonably cool and find the hottest woman you can. (It doesn’t matter if she works there or not.) Tell her you’re trying to dress nicer because you have a crush on a woman and you want her help impressing this woman. She’ll help you.
Now that we’ve bumped you up from a 9 to a 10…
Here’s How To Talk To Women…
1. Be POSITIVE and CONTRIBUTE. Women love men who make them feel good. So avoid bad vibes, negative vibes and negative conversation topics. Instead, focus on making her feel good emotions. Make her laugh… smile… blush… and don’t expect anything in return.
Give first. We’ll get, later.
2. Be DIRECT. Show INTEREST. Only approach attractive women and make it clear that you’re interested in her. You’ll both a. get over your nerves and b. have more success MUCH faster.
I liked to use the line, “I saw you (doing what you’re doing) and I have to say (what you noticed about her.)”
It’s simple and direct. And honest
“I saw you standing here and I have to say you have the prettiest hair I’ve ever seen.”
“I saw you sitting there and I have to say you look fantastic.”
The fact is: Being too complicated will ruin your chances for getting laid in the next 30 days. You’re not trying to have sex with the first woman you meet. Your goal is to gain experience and learn about what talking to women feels like and how women react to you.
3. Make HER work for YOU. This is called getting COMPLIANCE and it works like this:
Think back to something you’ve achieved. Are you proud of your achievement because it was handed to you? Or are you proud of your achievement because you WORKED at it and SUCCEED even though it was so damn hard?
The second one, right? Women are the same way towards relationships: The easy catch isn’t worth anything to her. So let her work for you. She can get you a drink at a club or a bar… or go get tickets for you while you wait in line for popcorn at the movie theater.
The sky is the limit.
From there…
You Want To Be Alone With Her And Then Get Naked…
Too simple, right? Well… yes and no.
The truth is: If you’ve met a girl and attracted her, your next step is just to get her phone number and make her your friend.
Really your friend. Not your “girl friend who’s kinda my friend but I really want to have sex with her.” No. Your real, true, actual friend.
Why? Because she’ll have to chase you. Because you’ll be unique in her life. Because girls hook up with their guy friends.
Hang out enough times and you’ll hook up with each other.
And if you’re making five… ten… or more new girl friends in the next 30 days, your chances are astronomically high for getting laid. As long as you:
1. Just relax
2. Make a move when the tension gets high
… That’s it.
My book The Attraction Code goes into more detail about how to go from your first kiss to actual sex together. You won’t need that until you’ve started hooking up, though.
So try the above plan for 30 days, at least 4 times per week. (This means talk to at least 10 women per week.)
I’ll see you in 30 days 
Your Friend,
- Vin
