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The Warm Up
Here’s what I do: when I identify girls that I really like, I use other girls that I’m least attracted to, and I approach those initially, just to get myself warmed up a little bit. I get chatty, and it’s quite easy to do it with girls that I’m not so attracted to because I feel more comfortable and confident. There’s less pressure because I’m not attracted to the girl anyway!
This technique allows me to get a little bit of validation, and to really get into a more social and chatty frame of mind, where I’m talkative and I’m a little bit more in the moment. So when I do start to approach girls that I’m a little bit more attracted to, I become a lot more focused, present and I’m able to display my true, attractive qualities to that girl.
A plan is your friend!
Another thing I do is that I have a bit of a plan up my sleeve. When I go up and talk to an attractive girl, I have in my own mind a plan of where I want the interaction to go. Generally, I want to talk to her for a couple of minutes, and then I want to isolate her as much as possible.
That means getting her away from her friends, and to a place where her focus is more on me and with fewer distractions. A place where it’s a little more intimate. This is why it’s a good idea to scout out the club beforehand, and identify good spots to take girls to talk to, once you decide you want to escalate.
If she has a friend, hopefully my own friend or wingman will take the initiative to go and chat to her friend, which will allow me time to engage in a little bit more of an intimate conversation with that particular girl.
Escalation is vital
When I am having that intimate conversation with the girl, I then use that opportunity to really escalate on her, and to display to her that I’m a guy who finds her attractive in a sexual way. At this point, I want the vibe of the conversation to go from friendly, to one on a more intimate level.
The key to not giving up is to play it as a numbers game
You have to realize, when you’re learning how to approach women that are more attractive, that the game becomes both higher risk, and higher reward.
If she’s quite an attractive woman, chances are that she’s going to have a lot of guys approaching her that night, so you need to really stand out, and you’ve also got to accept the fact that her ‘bitch shield’ will be a little bit higher than most other girls.
So in that sense it’s important not to take rejection personally, and accept the fact that it’s not always going to be smooth sailing. Chances are that you’re the 20th guy approaching her in the last hour, and that she may not even want to chat with you.
But that’s cool. If you can accept that, and stop feeling rejection as a personal insult, then your biggest enemy (your own fear) will no longer prevent you from approaching girls that you find really attractive.
If one doesn’t work, and you get rejected, just move on to the next!
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