I’m going to ask you a personal question:
When you are out on a date, how do you impress the gorgeous woman you’re with?
Do you pull out her chair? Open the door for her? Walk in between her and traffic whizzing past?
Or do you try to impress her by flashing cash, talking about your fancy job, or bragging about your sexual performance?
If you’re like most men, you probably aren’t the flashiest guy around. You may even feel guilt, like you’re “holding back” some of your best charm because you don’t want to brag.
Don’t worry.
The truth is: women are impressed by the way you make her feel about herself.
In reality, impressing a woman has very little to do with you.
Of course, your confidence… your dominance… and your comfortability in your sexuality are all important traits. You should do your best to cultivate these thoughts and behaviors in yourself. (Exact steps to do this, however, are located in other blog posts. Not this one.)
Today, I’d like to give you a cold dose of reality: Women are interested in themselves a lot more than they’re interested in you. At least on your first date, they are.
That’s why little gestures like putting your hand on her lower back while walking her through a crowd, pulling out her chair for her at dinner and opening the door for her when you bring her back to your place are all crucial. These gestures let a woman know you care for her.
These gestures make a woman feel special.
So these gestures get a woman in a relaxed, appreciative state. The perfect emotional state for having passionate sex with you.
How can you use this tip to go on great dates?
It’s simple: try to see her point of view, the whole time you’re out together. When you pick your date location, try to figure out whether she would feel comfortable there, or not. (For example: your local steakhouse may server a delicious Prime Rib… but… if your date is a vegetarian, you should eat somewhere else.)
Or maybe you’re like me. I used to bring women to dates I was looking forward to. Dates I thought would be fun. Some of my first dates were bringing women to arcades to play video games… playing paintball with a girl I liked… and even bringing women for beautiful walks along my local riverbank.
The trouble is, I never got laid. Instead, I got a bored girlfriend, a bruised girlfriend, and a cold girlfriend. None of which wanted to go home with me, later that night.
This seems like a very common, very obvious piece of advice.
But I promise: start looking at the world through a woman’s eyes and impressing a girl will seem easier than you could possibly imagine.
Mistakes you’re making will jump out at you and cry for your attention.
She will show you exactly what she needs from you, emotionally. She will practically scream out to you when she’s ready for your sexual attention. And she will whisper her secret desires into your ear, as clearly as if she wrote them down for you on paper.
This new way of looking at the world through a woman’s eyes was a major breakthrough, for me. In fact, I spent three whole years studying the way women think and look at the world, simply so I could look at the world through her point of view.
This study paid off in spades.
Before I knew what was going on, I was on date after date with gorgeous woman. Beautiful women who wouldn’t give me the time of day just weeks earlier.
In fact, I used this new way of looking at the world to seduce a long time friend of mine. A female friend who has the most beautiful black hair and the most gorgeous blue eyes you’ve ever seen.
This new revelation struck me as so powerful – and so IMPORTANT – I had to share it with the world. So I created a short, free, video you can watch. A video which shares the amazing tips you’ll use to look at the world through a woman’s eyes with you.
All you have to do is click the link below and you’ll go straight to your free video:
http://3questionsgetthegirl.com/simple-trick-video
If you decide to pass this video by, I can promise you: dating will be much, much more difficult for you than it needs to be. You have nothing to lose. This video is free:
http://3questionsgetthegirl.com/simple-trick-video
Your Friend,
- Vin
