I want to give you some inside secrets on how to kiss a girl and blow her mind.
Figuring out the best time to go for a kiss, how to kiss a girl and when to go for more of a sexual kiss — not just a kiss on the cheek takes knowledge and attention.
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It may seem simple after the fact, but if it is still looming before you like uncharted territory, then you will be wanting a guide.
The first critical mindset that you’ve got to have if you want to be good at kissing – and even more so if you want to be good with girls – is the idea that kissing is not that big of a deal.
The bigger a deal you think kissing is, the less kissing you’re going to do, because the more you’re going to talk yourself out of it with one excuse after another. The same rule goes with sex. The more big a deal you think sex is, the less sex you’re going to have.
If you are wondering how to kiss a girl, I’m guessing it’s a big deal to you.
The more you can think of it just being normal, and not a big deal, the easier it’s going to be, and the more of it you are going to get. It’s quite the paradox. When it comes to kissing, it’s really important to realize that kissing is not a big deal at all. Girls can often go out and kiss five or ten guys in a night, what better way to learn how to make out? girls love kissing. If you really get the numbers on how many guys a girl has kissed in their life, you wouldn’t be able to count it. It’s in the hundreds.
Although she may not tell you that, and you’ll never figure it out on your own.
To look at them, they seem so innocent, right? But you see, for most girls, kissing is not that big a deal. The reason girls kiss is different than ours. They want to see if there is a connection between you. They want to see if there is an attraction. They want to see if there is chemistry.
For girls, kissing is not so much about the experience, but more about learning about you.
How confident are you?
How much are you able to be romantic and be sensual, and be seductive?
For girls, it is definitely about the experience of kissing, but more than that, it’s a way of her learning in a direct way something more about you. It’s a way of her seeing what sort of guy you are. If she were an insect, her lips would be her feelers. You know how you see insects feeling around before they walk somewhere?
Well, women can use their lips to test out new ground in the same way, to see if they want to go any further.
If you kiss, what it does is help her to make a decision about whether she wants to date you or not.
There are signs she wants to date you, for girls, often the kiss is a make or break type of thing. If the kiss is good, she is going to consider more of a future with you. If the kiss is bad, you’ve got no chance. Although telling you that may give you even more pressure and make you more nervous, it’s important to realize that you have to get this over and done with as fast as possible. You don’t want to over-think how to kiss a girl. Then it would be HARD.
If you don’t kiss her in the first thirty to sixty minutes that you’re on a date, or in the first couple hours when you first meet her in a bar or someplace similar, there is a very big risk of you getting in the friend zone.
If you kiss her fairly early in the interaction — you know, I’ve kissed girls after thirty seconds of talking to them, it was so apparent there was an attraction between us, though I don’t recommend this when you are first starting out – then there is a very low chance of us backtracking into the friend zone. You will have a much better chance of dating her and having more of a sensual relationship, which is what you really want.
Your homework for this week:
- Figure out 30 different ways to kiss a girl.
- Find a girl you can practice kissing with.
- Attempt to kiss 5 girls this week.
- Find some great kissing moments from movies and have a girl explain why they are so good.
- Figure out the best way to use your hands while kissing.
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