It’s only natural for you to want to last longer during sex. It means that you enjoy it more–and it gives you the opportunity to give her more pleasure.
And you’re not alone! Most guys want to last longer during sex.
But if you are orgasming really fast, all the time during sex, then maybe you have premature ejaculation issues. If you do have this problem, I would not be overly concerned. There are lots of ways to slow premature ejaculation using medical procedures.
Don’t get too freaked out with going off early out of the gate.
If you have had problems lasting longer during sex, we’d like to hear from you. Please add your questions, comments, or personal experiences at the bottom of the page and I’ll respond personally.
How long you last is less important than how well you can turn her on
Now another thing to realize is that lasting longer does not always mean good sex.
If you talk to a lot of girls, ask them the best time they ever had sex or if a guy lasting a longer amount of time is really important? Most girls will talk about how a guy was, not how long he went for. Quality is a lot better than quantity.
The second part about this topic is to make her want to come back for more. And if you do have a great sex with a girl, then she will come back for a lot more.
The key to having great sex with a girl is making sex a really fun place.
Being extremely comfortable with yourself is important, and really enjoying having sex with a girl. Having an open mind is also an important part of great sex. Not being deep in your own mind and asking yourself questions about what is happening next and being nervous, but being really in the moment. Of course the key to having better sex, which generally happens if you are having more and more sex is to keep the communication open.
It is impossible to read somebody’s mind and the easiest way to find information out is by just asking.
As we have discussed before, the easiest way to communicate about sex and ask questions about it is just after sex. If you are asking a lot of questions about what turns you on before having sex, then sometimes that can build anxiety in yourself. You put a lot more pressure in yourself, whereas after sex, you already had sex so that pressure of performing is off. It is one of the most comfortable, relaxing situations to bring this up.
Of course when you are bringing up these sexual ideas with a girl and ask her personal questions, you should always share personal things that turn you on and not just make it like an interview. The more comfortable you make her feel, the more positive frame of mind she will be in, and the more she will want to share. Plus, the more she will want to be around you and the more she will want to have sex with you.
Remember though that you need to be really enjoying yourself when you are in the moment.
I mean, that is what a woman wants. A woman wants to please you. A woman wants to see you extremely satisfied. If you can elicit these values in your girl, she will want to come back for more.
Now, in terms of specific ways to last longer, and assuming that you are not orgasming extremely fast or have premature ejaculation issues, you may need to think of things that make you orgasm really fast. Does getting a blowjob make you orgasm really fast or does doggy style makes you orgasm really fast? If they do, once you find out what makes you orgasm fast, you can avoid those positions or acts at first. You might not get in that type of position when you’re first having sex, but when she is ready for you to come, you can go into this position easily, and orgasm very quickly.
She will have great satisfaction in knowing the things that get your really turned you on. She wants to see you orgasm.
I have said it earlier, but females do not orgasm every time they have sex. But if a man does not orgasm during sex, it can hurt the girl. A huge amount of her satisfaction comes from seeing the male orgasm. So it is critical that you are not just working on what pleases her, but also yourself. The fact that she can really please you and make you orgasm, will give her a huge amount of satisfaction for herself as well.
If you can have open and positive communication, then this is the key to making her want to come back for more.
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