How to Make Her Love You
How To Make Her Love You?
I’m guessing right now that you have a girl that you really like and are not sure exactly what to do and how to make her love you.
These moments when you are not sure if she likes you or not, or whether you have a chance or not or what is the best thing to have her love you are gut wrenching.
It really is enough to make you almost physically ill when you love someone and you are either not sure if they love you back – or worse if they don’t love you back.
So what can you do?
In many ways a girl falling in love with you is very similar to growing a flowering plant from a seed.
Starting with something small with the right mix of water, fertilizer and sunlight the chemistry, attraction and love begins to build and grow.
This is the key to make her love you. It's by creating the right environment.
One of the most common problems I see in guys is trying too hard to make it grow and figuratively killing it with too much water and fertilizer.
You see give it too little it dies and too much it dies.
In real life situations what am I talking about?
Well water represents the interest you show in her, fertilizer is about the effort you put in and sunlight is about allowing her freedom.
You see you can’t cause or make a seed grow. All you can do is provide the ultimate environment and atmosphere to give it the best chance of growing. There is always an element of luck, chance and timing involved too.
Interest
Interest is about what you do to let her know that you are interested in her and want to date her.
Too little interest and she’ll get bored and move on. Too much interest and you’ll scare her off.
If in doubt probably show a bit more interest than less interest. Statistically you run a better much overall chance being slightly past the middle point towards interest than no interest.
Effort
Effort involves how much time you spend thinking about her, money, time and effort you spend trying to pick her up and the amount of emotional investment you have in making it work.
The main problem is if there is a major imbalance between her effort and your effort.
You want it to be fairly even.
Her Freedom
One thing with human beings is that they tend to want what they can’t have and being not allowed often makes things more fun.
I was watching an interview with the Dutch Prime Minister about Marijuana. He said that his Government had effectively succeeded in making smoking weed ‘uncool’.
By making it legal and open it took away most of the fun for people to do it. It became far less exciting and desirable.
With women it is very similar.
They need a certain amount of personal freedom to really love you. You've got be comfortable with the fact that they may not love you and you are cool with that. They also need to know that if they don’t love you that you’ll move on and find someone else.
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