I’m struggling to build my social circle. Is there an easy way to make new friends quickly, and do you think that doing so will help me to meet more women?
Tim from Cleveland
Thanks so much for the question, Tim! One of the best ways to meet women is through friends, so if you have a wider circle of friends then, obviously, you are going to enjoy more opportunities with women.
So how can you go about achieving that? Well, I have three very simple, but very powerful, tips that I want to share with you:
- Focus on making new friends.
- Build an eclectic circle of friends.
- Don’t judge a book by its cover.
Tip #1: Focus on making new friends
This may sound obvious, but a lot of guys who want to make more friends and meet more women end up focusing all of their attention on the latter. Don’t be like these guys!
Remember: you will automatically meet more women as you grow your social circle. So when you go out, make it a priority to meet new people. On an average night out, allocate at least thirty percent of your time just to making friends. Don’t spend all your time trying to pick up girls since this is very short-sighted.
Growing your social circle will take time, but you will be surprised how quickly it will happen if you get to know everyone who you meet and connect with as many people as possible.
Tip #2: Build an eclectic circle of friends
Ideally you want friends from many different backgrounds and of different demographics. That will get you invited to a wide range of events and will expose you to a broader cross-section of women to meet. Don’t just hang out with people who are similar to you!
The best way to make lots of different friends is by keeping an open mind towards everyone you meet. Be willing to talk to anyone and to get to know them. You will probably find that you will end up making friends with people who you would have never considered socializing with.
Tip #3: Don’t judge a book by its cover
Having coached thousands of guys, I believe that one of the things that holds them back the most is that they judge people before they approach them. They will typically judge a woman by her appearance and won’t bother approaching her if they aren’t attracted to her. This will dramatically limit your opportunities to meet more women!
Just because you aren’t immediately attracted to a girl doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t bother approaching her. What if she has attractive friends? What if she has an awesome personality? What if she can introduce you to new social circles? You’ll never know if you judge a book by its cover!
Bonus tip: Take action!
One of the most socially skilled guys who I have ever met was someone who approached some friends of mine at a bar. My friends were engaged at the time, but that didn’t stop this guy from saying hello, introducing himself, and becoming friends with them. This guy understood that he would be able to meet new people through this couple and, in the process, meet new girls as well.
That’s the attitude which you need to have!
If you want to make new friends and meet more women then you need to take charge of your social life. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and wishing that you knew more people! Your social circle isn’t going to grow itself. But with the right focus, a willingness to meet new people, and a non-judgemental approach, you can rapidly expand your circle of friends.
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