Are you in love with your best friend? It’s not only possible–it’s virtually a given! But she sees you as her “Friend”. Discover how you can quickly and easily launch yourself out of the friends zone with the five simple tips revealed below:
The first thing you need to consider is the overall frame of the interaction. The frame of the interaction is basically the meaning behind the interaction. What happens with the frame is the longer we spend in the frame, the harder it is to get out of it. So if you’ve been in the friend’s zone for an extended period of time, it can actually then be quite a challenge to crawl your way out of the friend’s zone and set a sexual frame. It’s not that it’s impossible, but you just have to recognise that it’ll take a little bit of time.
Step number two is to get out and have success with other women. Women like guys who they recognise other women are actually interested in. If she sees you meeting other women, interacting with other women, not only is that going to develop a little bit of jealousy with her, but it’s also going to help her recognise that you actually are someone that girls see as a sexual option. She’ll have no other way of being able to think about you then, actually seeing you as a sexual option as well.
Number three is take advantage of the strengths of your relationships. One of the great things about being in the “friend zone” is that you’ve already moved past platonic level and you’ve moved to a much deeper personal level. You’ve both invested so much in each other already. That can actually be an advantage, once you do get comfortable moving things to the sexual stage.
Continue to work on sharing that deep connection and opening up to her about your fears and the challenges that you face. Likewise, you’re encouraging her to open up to you. Don’t feel like that’s a negative part of the relationship and don’t feel like you have to shut that part of the relationship down to move forward. All you need to do is incorporate a little bit more of a sexual energy.
Step number four is to focus on becoming more physical with her. One of the challenges that guys face is that they feel like, because they’ve got this friendship with a girl, that they’re not going to be able to move things to a sexual level. You can do that with your touch, so every other part of your connection stays the same. Your verbal communication stays the same; your non-verbal stays the same. It’s just now you’re actually starting to use your physical touch, so that you can communicate with her on a subconscious level, that you actually have a little bit of interest in her.
The fifth, and final, step is that you actually have to go for it. When you get your window of opportunity, you have to risk the friendship in order to go after something a little bit more sexual. You’ll find that if you go after it confidently and you’ve been working on steps one through four, when you do go after it, 90 per cent of the time the girl will reciprocate. If not for any other reason than just to find out if there is a connection there. You’ve been working on becoming a more attractive guy and having more success with other women, so your chances of being able to stick that interaction in that relationship are going to be a lot higher.
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