Maybe you’ve met a girl you like–one you want to spend more
time with, but the second you get close to her (or even hear
her say your name) your game goes down the drain…
You might be able to pick up women and get sex, but you have
no idea how to meet those girls that really make you sweat.
There’s just the extra pressure and there’s this extra feeling that they need to do it right… which they end up screwing up.
I want to give you some strategies for dealing with that and how to overcome this forever, so you know how to meet girls you like consistently and with confidence.
When I think about myself, I don’t make a big deal out of any girl.
You could call it experience that has taught me, but I think it’s more than that.
Are you making girls a huge deal?
I’ve learned in my life that when I make anything into a big deal…
The moment we think about something too much or turn it into something we’re too emotionally connected to, then we start to put too much value on it and it becomes harder.
Put less pressure on yourself, when you are trying to meet girls.
No matter what it is?
The less pressure we put on ourselves, in particular with girls, the easier it is.
I personally have become very mindful and very aware to not to turn anything into a big deal in my mind. The thing really stopping guys from knowing how to meet girls is that they turn it into a huge special, magic event… when in reality they already know how to meet women.
Any area in my life where I haven’t got the results I wanted, I was making a big deal out of it.
I started to shift a lot of my beliefs around these areas to make sure I believed it was easy. In my head now, when I see a beautiful girl or a girl I really like, I make sure that I tell myself stuff like this is easy.
I know what I’m doing.
I got this!
I say really positive things and the most important thing I focus on is just making sure I never make a big deal of it.
If I’m talking to a world famous model, even then, I don’t make a big deal out of it. The secret technique to learning how to meet girls you like is about keeping it as low-pressure as possible.
I just make it, like I’m talking to any other person, like I’m just talking to any girl. I know the moment in my head I turn it into a big deal and I start thinking about it too much or I start thinking I need a special strategy or I start thinking too much into the future, then I’m gone.
With girls… the moment you act like it’s a big deal, then you’ll start to get all overwhelmed and over-awed, which means you’re screwed.
It inhibits your personality from coming out and you being the natural confident YOU. I want you to start being more aware of anything that you’re making into a big deal. Be aware of anything you’re turning into something that’s more than it needs to be.
Here are some missions to meet girls you like:
(1) Write down any ways that you are making really attractive girls or girls you really like into a big deal in your mind.
(2) What are some better ways to think of these girls that will make you less nervous?
(3) How can you think of yourself that will make you more confident with attractive girls
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