Know she’s a keeper and how to keep her…
It can be easier than you think to find the right girl for you.
But as the song goes, girls just want to have fun.
However, it is very important that a guy finds the right girl that matches exactly what he is looking for. This is one of the most difficult aspects of dating for many guys. They always seem to choose the fun girls, when they actually want to settle down, or they will choose girls that want a lasting relationship when they are only looking for fun.
In order to avoid this confusion, you need to clarify exactly what you are looking for.
There are some techniques that will come in handy as you try to decipher what kind of relationship a girl is after. This process is called screening or qualifying. You can also shape your interaction with a girl to determine if she is going to fit the style of relationship that you are looking for.
The first step in screening or qualifying comes in knowing exactly what you are looking for and what you like.
Screening occurs naturally throughout the dating process, because you are always trying to determine if her interests are aligned with yours. If you are looking for girl who is a bit more serious, then going out and finding girls who just want to have fun is going to be useless to you. You are barking up the wrong tree. You should instead be looking to attract mature women that are looking for long-term relationships. You can determine this by simply talking to her and trying to find out if she matches you.
The same is true for the opposite side of the coin.
If you want fun girls, write down the traits of the girls that you like. Personally, I would be looking for a fun girl that is outgoing, adventurous, open-minded and spontaneous. All of those qualities would be on my list. Your comprehensive list should have up to 20 things that you want to find in a girl. This will give you a solid idea of what to look for. You will be able to identify the type you are looking for just by watching the way she acts, how she does things and what she finds important.
As you screen girls, you can adapt your conversation so that it will help you determine if she meets your criteria.
You might tell her that she looks like a fun girl, but if she denies it, then you know that you need to move on to someone else. You can try to pursue a relationship with someone that doesn’t fulfill your needs, but you will be fighting a losing battle. You will both become very frustrated, and it will be hard to communicate with each other.
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