Ready for a down n’ dirty Q & A?
To start, want to know where and how to meet women, so you’ll increase your chances of finding the one you want?
Read on to hear how I and my clients do it…
***And when you are finished reading, please take a few seconds and share one of your frustrations about meeting women in the comments below. I’d like to help you and I’ll be sure to answer each comment personally.
5 questions about meeting women:
Guys often ask me how to meet women. If you are inexperienced, and you want to get a girlfriend, my top five questions and answers will give you some good ideas.
Q: It seems like the nightclub environment is a very competitive one. Are there other, better ways for me to be meeting a lot more women?
A: Take a new approach. In fact I don’t think you should be basing your entire approach for meeting women on going out to nightclubs. In moderation, it can be a very good thing for a guy to go to bars to meet new girls. But I don’t recommend that you do this more than once a week.
Believe me, there are many other ways to meet women. It might take a bit of courage at first, but you can approach women in the street during the day. If that seems intimidating, so you can also take up hobbies that many women enjoy and make women friends. Then you can ask them to introduce you to their friends.
Ask your friends who have women-friends what they did when they wanted to meet new girls. Rather than visiting night clubs and bars every night, I really would encourage you to find the maximum number of ways for meeting women as possible. Trust me, there are a lot of places to meet girls.
Q: Does the way that I meet women or the way that I should talk to women vary that much between these different environments?
A: Yes, there are some differences between meeting a girl through friends or at a nightclub, but these are quite irrelevant when you’re first starting out learning how to meet women.
I would like to encourage you not to worry about that sort of stuff right now. Think about how sportsmen and women operate. For instance, at a professional level of tennis, there’s a slightly different strategy playing on a grass court or on a clay court, but when you’re first learning to play tennis, there’s no difference at all. It just doesn’t matter what surface you are playing on – you’ve just got to focus on hitting the ball. And for a guy learning to be good with women, you need to start out by focusing on talking to more women.
Q: What are three of the main things that I should be focusing on when I am talking to women? How do I make sure that what’s going on shows her that I’m interested?
A: I firmly believe that you should experiment. I also believe that you’ve got to be willing to make mistakes and learn from them. So how do you start to experiment? It’s surprisingly easy. What you do is to try new things and start keeping track of what works and what doesn’t.
The guys who end up being very good with girls are only good at one thing at this stage – learning. If you’re learning well you won’t make the same mistake twice. Also, you will learn from your mistakes and your varying experiences. A guy who isn’t good with women will tend to just keep making the same mistakes over and over again. It’s really the skill of learning that will make a guy an amazing lady’s man, and not some innate DNA creature.
The second thing to focus on when you’re talking to women is eye contact, literally just looking to connect with her. Instead of trying to say the right thing or trying not to run out of things to say, just focus on seeing if you can feel something. See if you can look into her eyes and feel a connection… something between you… a sort of chemistry. Start to just focus a little bit more on the emotional side of it, and building your own intuition.
Thirdly, I urge you to focus on expressing who you are. Make sure that, during the conversation, she gets some idea of who you are as a person and what sort of stuff you’re into. You ought to try and get that same information from her. Then you’ll be winning, and you’ll start to see that you actually do know how to meet women.
Q: Can it be a bad thing if I’m talking to multiple women at the same place?
A: I believe it’s a very good thing to be meeting a lot of women, rather than just one at a time. I also think it’s good for you to talk to as many women as possible, and begin to not care too much about whether you’re offending them or not. Another point I’d like to make is that by meeting a whole bunch of women, you’ll learn to identify which ones really do attract you – and that’s important in the long run.
Q: Is there some way that I can take advantage of the fact that I’m talking to more women? Is there some way that it can make me more attractive?
A: This question follows on from the previous one. And yes there is a way that you can take advantage of the fact that you’re meeting more women. It’s a bit like the tactic I share to think of a nickname that your new girl will remember when she sees it flash up on her cellphone screen. If a girl sees that you’re popular with other girls, that will immediately make you more attractive in her eyes.
I wouldn’t encourage you to do that as some sort of technique, but rather just as a way of life. You need to convince yourself that you’re a guy who enjoys talking to women. You’re very social, and you like meeting new people. If you’re building a house, that’s the foundation.
This is also the foundation of being good with women – just being good with people. Really all you have to do is enjoy talking to women, and then you can enjoy being that really cool, social guy.
***Remember: Please take a few seconds and share one of your frustrations about meeting women in the comments below. I’d like to help you and I’ll be sure to answer each comment personally.
Now, how to make the women you do meet hot and horny…
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