What are the Top 10 ways to pick up girls that will guarantee even the socially challenged guys succeed with a girl?
It’s interesting that when guys type a phrase such as “Top 10 Ways to Pick Up a Women” into Google, the advice that they’ll find will almost certainly be missing some really critical components.
Instead of looking at a top 10 list, guys ought to just focus on the one or two things that would immediately put them on a path towards getting better results. So, my advice to guys is to actually just get one thing right; get some improvement in that, and then once they achieve some improvement, to add something else. Work at it one by one.
Don’t chase the magic bullet.
When I first started, I was excited to realize that there were websites like this one, and a number of different forums that helped guys like me implement a variety of new ideas into their approaches with women, and that these would yield better results. When I started playing around with some of these ideas, I started to see some improvements in the way that women were reacting to me, and in the way that I was able to communicate with them. As a result, I then thought, “Wow, I want to keep adding more and more information like that.” What it did was it set me up for this trap of wanting to chase magic bullets; finding the next one thing that I could add to my game that would make all the difference.
In the early days, that was an effective approach. However, it got to a point where I just kept adding more and more things to my game, and the impact of what I was adding was lessened because now I had so many things that I had incorporated into my game. It was like diluting wine with water. I was seeing diminishing returns for each new idea. The way I see it now, I realize that the two or three things that were really important were being crushed by all the noise, and all the excess stuff that I thought was important for me to getting sex with women.
Take away what is limiting you.
So what I really want guys to concentrate on, is rather than thinking of what the 10 steps that you can add to your game are that you think are going to make all the difference; you should instead think about the 10 steps that you might remove from your game, because they’re creating excess noise – they’re not letting the pure sound come through. By doing this, you will gain an appreciation for what is actually important to you.
Here are the Three Pillars…
There are three things that I’ve found are the most important to me. I call them “The Three Pillars”, and I think it’s pretty cool.
The First Pillar: Conversation Skills. You can get a lot of information on this topic just be reading articles on this website. We also have products tailored specifically to helping you become better at conversations. The upside of practicing these skills is that they will help you succeed more with women, but these are really skills that are going to help you in your day to day life too.
The Second Pillar: Physical Escalation. Vin DiCarlo has an excellent and free e-book called the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. This guide will take a guy from being unable to touch women, to being able to incorporate touch into all of his interactions.
The Third Pillar: Logistical Escalation. This is the ability to move a girl from the meeting place, to a variety of places around the club, and eventually back to one of your homes.
If guys were to concentrate on just those three pillars of their game, and really focus on nailing them, I can guarantee you that you will start thinking that what was recognized as the Top 10 list is almost a complete waste of time. It’s going to actually be a hindrance. It’s going to create clutter and add extra steps to the process that aren’t really relevant.
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