Picking up women at the club, isn’t about what you say, but how you say it…
Clubs are notorious for being loud places where you can’t really talk.
Here’s how to flirt like a pro…
Picking up girls at a club is deeper than words.
What you have to realise is that while talking is always important, when you are in a nightclub a lot of the flirting happens on a non-verbal level. That is a good thing because it means that you don’t have to focus on your words so much. Words are just one tool in your repertoire for attracting women and turning them on.
If you learn how to touch a woman and move her around a nightclub, then that can be much more powerful than speaking too much. The truth of the matter is that many guys talk too much and end up saying things that cost them the opportunity of having sex. The women who they approach may have already decided that they were going to have sex with them, but then they talk too much and fuck everything up for themselves.
Ask her to move.
The advantage of a really loud nightclub is that you have a reason to ask a girl to move. And if you can move her around the club, then she will become more comfortable with you as she invests more time with you. Moving her can also distort her sense of time by making it feel like she has spent a lot more time with you than she really has. All of this can work to your advantage.
Here’s how to move her around:
1. Start small.
The first thing that you want to do is begin with a very small move. For example, you could do something simple like isolating her by getting her to turn and face you, so that the two of you are in your own personal bubble not far from her friends. That would be the first and smallest step that you should take. When you are ready to increment things, it can be a really good idea to lead her somewhere. For example, you might grab her hand and suggest that the two of you go to the bar for a drink together.
2. Have a reason.
Having a reason for moving her is essential. If guys want to get more comfortable with this, then they should start by looking for reasons to move a girl around. The last thing you want to do is apologize or plead with a woman to move, because that is really unattractive and shows that you don’t know how to lead.
3. Keep going for it.
As always, practice makes perfect. Just focus on little things. If it is very loud and you want to move the girl who you are with, then you could suggest that the two of you sit down somewhere quieter, so that you can hear each other better. You need to have a certain amount of confidence and be firm without being too aggressive. Start practicing this and you will see that your success rate with woman will improve.
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