Are you making this common mistake?
Reading a girl’s physical measurements help a guy learn how to read women. But it is complex, challenging, and most guy’s screw it up.
Read on to learn the most common mistakes guy’s make when trying to read women and what you should focus on instead.
Are you making this mistake too... here is what you can focus on to get on the right track.
Most guys make this mistake….
Guys are only look at a girl’s measurements… in terms of 36-28-36. Breasts, hips, and butt. But there are fabulous women who have remarkably different measurements from those. Guys who really get women understand this and take pleasure in a wide array of women.
Are you making this mistake?
Most guys screw this up too…
There is another set of measurements at play here. YOUR measurements or how you think you measure up mean more than how she looks. Do you feel worthy of beautiful women? Are you tall enough, or is your penis large enough? Are you rich enough or attractive enough? These measurements cause you more grief than any you notice in a girl. Working on looking at yourself accurately and positively, will increase your attraction to women much more than you skills at reading her signals.
Short guys are the worst at this. They think they can only go after short girls. They limit themselves… when in reality, if you are confident, she won’t care.
Do you make decisions for a girl that aren’t yours to make?
You have no idea what guys a girl’s into. I encourage guys not to self-select. What you should be worrying about is: are you physically attracted to her and can you spend time with her. Don’t worry about figuring out whether a girl’s interested in you. You won’t ever be able to read a woman’s mind. They are all different. When you are starting out… you want to work on yourself first and foremost.
If you don’t believe in YOU, signals don’t matter.
But it’s interesting the way it works. Ultimately, when guys see a girl who, they feel couldn’t possibly be interested in them, it doesn’t matter how many signals that girl gives him, he just won’t be open to them. Yet, you could put that same guy in a scenario with a girl who, through his past experiences, he feels like would definitely be interested in him, and suddenly he spots signals that may not even be there.
You see what you want to see.
It’s much better to know yourself before you look at others. If you’re constantly deluding yourself all the time that girls aren’t interested in you, then they won’t be. I know from my personal perspective, if I’m going to be deluding myself, I think it’s far more powerful, beneficial, and empowering if I’m deluding myself into thinking positive things.
Do you struggle with your self-esteem? With believing that you measure up? Ask a question and I’ll personally respond to you.
Make sure you come across as confident and fun when you approach a woman…
Looking for more ways to talk to beautiful women? If you’re frustrated and tired of settling for average women…or no women at all…you need to change your dating strategy. There are certain secret questions that drive women absolutely wild. You’ll be amazed how well they work. Know what they are?
