So many guys are so focused on trying to impress a girl by doing things for them but what is the best mindset to take? What is actually going to impress a girl? Read on to learn how to effectively impress a girl and get her attention.
I see a lot of the time guys trying to impress girls, trying to buy them things, trying to look impressive, try to say something impressive and do the brightest, shiniest thing to get their attention.
This is actually a common mistake. What girls find impressive, a lot of the time, is not what guys think is impressive. What I want to illustrate here is the fact that being impressive doesn’t last very long. You have a very short window to make an impression.
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1. Be Interesting!
You might get her attention and she’s impressed while you’re there and talking to her, with all the money that you’re flashing or with your fancy car, the crazy story that you have. It might be impressive for a little amount of time, but it’s not going to last very long. The thing that is going to last, and that is going to be way more valuable and way more memorable, is being interesting.
If you look at it as would you rather be impressive or would you rather be interesting, interesting trumps impressive every single time. How can we be interesting? One of the most effective ways to be interesting is to be interested. It’s not necessary how interesting your life is, or how interesting your adventures are, or how interesting your lifestyle is. It’s more to do with how interested you are in her. Being interested in her will make a longer lasting impression than anything materialistic.
As soon as you’re interested in her and you’re not giving away too much information yourself, that’s immediately going to make you interesting. She’s going to be telling lots of stories; she’s going to be giving away lots of information – STAY interested.
2. Do Not Volunteer Information
The less you give away, the less impressive you try to be, and she’s going to be intrigued. She’s going to be like, “Why isn’t this guy trying to impress me?” She’s going to be like, “I’ve told this guy so much about myself, and he’s actually listening, yet I hardly know a thing about him.”
That’s immediately going to create intrigue, and it’s going to make you very compelling to her. Being compelling, being intriguing, being interested is all going to work to your favor.
3. Keep the Conversation Going Without Divulging Secrets
The best way you can keep the conversation going while maintaining your secrets is to ask questions. Ask questions about her, questions about things that she tells you about. If she says something, you can say something like, “Tell me about that,” or, “I like that,” or, “Tell me more about that. What was that like? What was that like for you? How did that feel?” You want to be communicative but keep the conversation on her.
Just keep encouraging her to continue her stories and really get more information from her about those things.
What I recommend is to shut up. Those two words are important. If she’s talking, be quiet. A lot of guys make this mistake, of trying to jump in with their story, something they can relate to. Just be quiet and let her talk.
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