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If you’re going out to a meeting agency, a speed dating event, a singles night; you are getting yourself out there.
If you’re talking about online dating sites where you don’t have a face-to-face contact, then it may not work if you’re hardly comfortable and competent in social situations. Indeed, if you’ve got lots of social anxieties, and you are not interacting with humans a lot, then online dating might not be the best place to start.
If you were to eventually meet her in real life, you would be just as anxious and uncomfortable as you are in regular situations, and that’s no good.
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A good way to identify if you’re going to handle yourself well in a social situation is to ask yourself this simple question: are you spending a lot of time in front of a computer screen, perhaps in an office or at home, and as a result you’re not having that much human contact?
If so, then you have to deal with this problem.
A lot of times you may encounter the temptation to say, “I don’t have much time” and use all sorts of time related excuses to justify to yourself and others why dating online is such a good place to meet people. And that may be all well and good, but you’re not doing your people skills any favors. In fact, you’re probably harming them by not going out there and putting yourself in social situations.
I know and understand that you may feel a lot of anxiety and stress building up inside of you, and that’s why you avoid social situations.
In this case, I would suggest trying out a speed dating event. They’re easy, fun, and they’re already setup for you, so you don’t really have to think much. You just go and have short a short, 1 to 5 minute interaction with all of these different women, and they, just like you, are out looking to meet guys.
They may have similar problems as you, they may be anxious and nervous, and maybe their profession puts them in a similar situation where they have little human contact. Plus, they’re almost certainly as busy as you are. Who knows, you might be able to relate to them; there is no real pressure. Getting out there and having a face-to-face interaction is highly important, whether you end up dating those people or not.
Then when you do go back to online dating and start meeting people online, your interpersonal skills are going to be a lot more impressive, and you’ll find yourself a lot more relaxed. As a result, your success rate is going to go up.
I want guys to go onto Meetup.com or look on Google for some local speed dating events. Find an event near you that looks interesting, and then lock yourself into it — pay for it and put it in your calendar. Since you’ve paid for it, you’ll feel less like chickening out at the last minute.
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