How can I learn to talk to women in bars?
What I want to give you is a few techniques and tools for working with large groups of people and how to handle the technical elements of having conversations with women in bars, such as the actual ‘logistics’ of where you live and where she lives and how to get there afterwards.
This is actually one of the biggest elements of meeting girls in bars – dealing with the transport situation, figuring out where to take her and managing her friends. This is the REAL ISSUE with knowing how to talk to women in bars.
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Now I just want to say that if you want to meet really attractive women in bars, you’ve got to get in the habit of talking to larger groups.
You’ll find just about all really attractive women in bars will be in larger groups, so it’s important to begin to get comfortable in not only starting conversations with larger groups, but also leading and also being able to take the girl you like from the large group. Maybe to dance or maybe for a drink and then bring her back to build trust.
This is a really key skill with getting good with girls, being able to manage the group dynamics and manage her friends… especially her guy friends. You’ve got to think like a bit of a wolf to really master knowing how to talk to women in bars. Being a little bit strategic. If she’s got guy friends you want to be able to really make friends with them and get them on your side and get them to really like you.
Now, the biggest part of actually meeting women in bars and taking them home is managing the transport logistics.
You wouldn’t believe how easy it is to go out on the town and find girls to date or that want to have sex with you, but it just doesn’t happen because of her transport, her friends, or your transport situation.
A lot of guys get VERY FRUSTRATED because they think being good with girls is going out and finding girls that want to have sex with you. That’s the EASY PART. The tricky part is managing all the obstacles and logistical issues.
There is just so many factors, maybe she is the designated driver and all her friends rely on her to drive them home or maybe you live one hour out of the city and its really hard to go back to your house. So what I recommend is having a really solid plan.
One of the best things you can do is make a friend, a male friend who lives in the city close to where the bars are that has spare bedroom or a couch or somewhere you can take girls.
The real issue is not how to talk to women in bars, it’s what to do with girls that want to have sex with you. This is a gold mine; this is worth investing a lot of your time and energy in.
The next thing you want to do is get good at understanding the transport situation as early on in the interaction.
There is just no point in spending the night talking to a girl if she has a wedding the next day or if she has to work at 7 o’clock in the morning. For me, I need to have a real purpose, when I’m thinking about how to talk to women in bars – there needs to be a point in it. For me that purpose is sex.
Don’t waste your time with girls where there is NO CHANCE of something happening. Even if she likes you, if there is some major obstacle… it’s pointless. And these obstacles will be there all the time. This is a critical part of meeting women in bars.
It isn’t so much about how to talk to women in bars is about how to have a plan to overcome problems before they happen. Knowing how to talk to women in bars is mostly about preventing things going wrong. So get an idea of what she is doing tomorrow and what her transport situation is.
On the other hand sometimes you meet women in bars and its obvious they want to go home, maybe they caught a bus in, maybe they are out and they drove their own car, but look for indicators and subtle cues about the transport and logistics situation because you can learn a lot from it.
One of the things I like to do is actually be open to taking a couple of people back to my place, say you meet a girl and she has got a friend, you want to bring them both back to your place, maybe show the friend some DVD’s give her some food, while you spend some time with the girl you like.
Some Quick Missions You Can Do Right Now:
(1) Finish this sentence with 5-10 endings – Something I could start a conversation with a woman I meet in a bar is…
(2) Think of 3 problems that might stop you from taking a girl home from a bar or something that has gone wrong in the past when you’ve met women in bars – and write a quick little strategy to solve that problem.
(3) Book in your diary or schedule 2 times in the next week you will go to meet some girls at a bar – and lock it in.
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