If you want to tell a girl that you like her, you need to show her. Once you show her that you like her, you can then have a conversation and tell her your feelings toward her.
So, how do you show her?
Start to test the waters a little bit and see how she responds. You can do this through statements of intent.
Statements of intent are essentially where you let her know that you’re interested in her, but you do it in a way that it doesn’t create tension.
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1. Do not say, “I really like you”
One of the problems with coming straight out and saying to a girl “You know what, I really like you,” is that it puts her in an awkward position. Even if she likes you back, the tension created through that awkwardness might even cause her to have to even respond negatively.
2. Statements of Intent
Learn how to communicate effectively with statements of intent. Instead of awkward moments, say things like “Wow, you have to stop looking at me like that, because I’m thinking naughty thoughts every time you look at me like that.” Or, “why did you have to dress so sexy tonight? I can’t even concentrate right now.” When you can say things like that to a girl and you can do it in a fun and playful way. This also boosts her confidence while you get your point across.
If she accepts them, meaning that she doesn’t walk off in disgust, or she doesn’t say ‘you really can’t say things like that.’ That gives you a clear indication that she’s open to moving things forward with you.
3. Practice your Intent
Getting better at making statements of intent can really help to project that. The above statements are two fairly obvious statements of intent. Other ones that you can do are far less obvious and probably a little bit easier to insert into a conversation.
Things like ‘Wow, I think we almost shared a moment there.” Or, “You know what, I’ve been crushing on you from a distance so I thought I’d better come up and say Hi”
Those are ways that you can let a girl know that you’re interested in her, that you’re open to exploring a sexual connection with her, however, you’re not being overly aggressive; they are a bit more playful and flirtatious.
It’s a scenario where she can continue to have an interaction with you without feeling like she’s actually committing to the process, but the nature of the fact that she hasn’t shot you down or told you that you can’t talk to her like that, actually confirms that she’s open to the idea of moving things in a sexual direction.
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