Let me guess. You’ve fallen in love, haven’t you? And now you’re wondering – How do I show someone I love them?
Well worry no more, because it’s not as difficult as it might seem.
The importance of sincerity
First of all, when figuring out how to express love, you need to understand the importance of sincerity. She needs to feel that you’re saying it because you really mean it, and not just to temporarily please her, or because you want to get something from her.
Girls are very intuitive, and more than likely will pick up on any insincerity right from the start, so don’t try to fool her.
Create the right environment
Secondly, you need to set up some kind of a background from which to tell her about how you feel. You don’t want to meet her for coffee and suddenly burst out professing your undying love – least of all in a public place where she’ll be under pressure to respond in a certain way.
I would try and make the moment as special as possible, so if you can do it in a very romantic or intimate situation, preferably at a time when you guys are alone together, then that will make it a lot more special to her than just saying it out of the blue at a pub one night. The location and moment is pretty important!
Other obvious stuff
You’re going to want to do it in person. Don’t do it in a text message, or wimp out and do it on an e-mail or status update. Face her when you do it. Be man enough about it and verbalize in clear words. This is going to mean a lot to her.
Also, when you do it, don’t expect anything in return. Do it because you want to express how you feel about her. Don’t do it to try and get something out of her, or to try and get some kind of validation. Just do it from the point of view that you want her to know how you feel.
Creativity is your friend
Creativity can really help you out here. There are countless methods you can employ when telling someone you love them. The classical way is to do it through poetry, in which case you’ll make it all the more special by writing the poem yourself, and not just doing a Google search for the first love poem you see. If you’re not much of a writer, then by all means read a few love poems to get an idea for the genre.
If you really want inspiration, close your eyes and imagine how she makes you feel – and then just put it into words. You could even try writing, “When we’re together, you make me feel…” and then just brainstorm for a few minutes, and work from there. Remember that women respond far better to feelings than to facts. You can work on the rhyme once you’ve got the meaning figured out.
Depending on how musical or artistic you are, you could also try writing her a song, or painting something beautiful. Make sure though that you’re making something unique, because that’s what’s truly going to be memorable for a romantic.
And lastly – don’t go making a joke out of it! You might create a really awkward and uncomfortable situation if you make your emotions and feelings unclear to her. Don’t back out once you’ve said it, or attempt to lower the value of your confession to her. Say it, stick by your words, and be sincere.
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