Sex will come as naturally as breathing when you know how to trigger her sexual arousal with the following tips – and she won’t even know it’s happening to her!
Want to know the secrets of how to really turn a girl on? Did you ever want to amp up her desires so much that she would be ready to go crazy in bed? If so – buckle yourselves in, guys!
Use these secrets with caution because you need to be able to follow through with the actions you inspire. I don’t want you to waste the energy that you put into using these secrets only for you to chicken out at the last minute.
Make your intentions clear
Now when it comes to meeting a girl in a club, it can be difficult moving from a regular conversation to a sexually charged one. What you want to do is start bringing up sex very subtly and casually in your conversation. The easiest way to do that is with a compliment. She will in turn start thinking about you as a potential sexual partner.
At this point, if the opportunity presents itself, start breaking the touch barrier. Touch her arm when you talk to her or if you move your conversation to somewhere more private, lead her by touching the small of her back. The more you flirt and interact with her by using touch, the more she’ll consider you as a prime candidate in the bedroom.
It’s important to note that if you make her feel comfortable about sex, she’ll easily open up to you in the bedroom. If you’re comfortable talking about sex, then she’ll be comfortable talking about sex. She’ll be able to let go of any stigmas that she has about sex and be herself without being ashamed of her sexual needs. Together, the two of you can make all of your fantasies come true.
However, if you’re a guy that finds it hard to talk about sex around girls there is a really great way to help boost your confidence and comfort level. Trying to be more dominant will help you create sexual tension and get girls stimulated by you. There is a lot of demonstrated power when you show your strong sexual confidence. Women love a man with confidence and that will definitely turn her on.
Try talking dirty to her. This doesn’t have to involve anything derogatory, crude, or demeaning. Just whisper exactly what you’re thinking and wishing you could do to her. Put her in a submissive frame of mind by demanding her to do things for you. It’s a fantastic way to turn her on and get sparks flying.
With dirty talk there are limits so you need to test her boundaries gently – you don’t want to offend her or leave her feeling awkward. Start off with some talk like, “you really turn me on when I see you like this. I can barely control myself.” From this point on, depending on how she responds, you can slowly turn up the dirty to shift her mindset into sex mode. Get it right and she won’t be able to control her desire for you. She’ll become more comfortable, reciprocating and embellishing the dirty talk that you started.
Don’t limit yourself to using dirty talk in the bedroom. You could use talk dirty during the day, through text messages or in an email. It’s a fantastic way to get her excited about tonight. You’ll keep her thinking about what she wants you to do to her so the next time she sees you, she won’t be able to help wanting to rip your clothes off.
Sexual and sensual
Once you have her warmed up with dirty talk, move on to kissing her. The neck is known as a strong erogenous zone for women, and activity in these zones will really get a girl aroused, so this is a great place to target. Kiss her neck, breathe on her neck and lick her neck up and down. Alternatively, you could try gently caressing the lines of her collarbone or the inside of her thighs. If you happen to be standing up, simply press your body lightly against hers while you’re kissing. This will get her wondering what your body will feel like pressed up against her naked one.
Remember, pacing yourself and keeping the future a mystery will enhance her arousal to the point where she’ll begin taking the clothes off you. Women need to be teased to become comfortable with the idea of having sex with someone new, so you better be up to the challenge.