The turn-offs to avoid if you EVER hope to turn her on…
I’m going to reveal the top 10 turn offs for women that will ruin any chance you have with success. Knowing what the red flags are will increase your ability in turning your woman on, not off.
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Your objective on a date is to turn her on, not off!
Dating mistakes not to make. Here are the top 10 biggest turn offs for women.
Mistake #1: Getting too drunk.
Guys that go out and try to get their courage from a bottle usually overdo it and end up sloppy, disgusting, and almost sleazy. If you’re going out make sure you monitor your drinking and limit your intake to just a couple of drinks.It’s okay to use a couple of drinks to loosen up and become less nervous, but if you have a problem with alcohol, then don’t drink at all. Once you become a drunken slob, you’ll instantly limit your chances with any woman and become very unattractive to all woman around you.
Mistake #2: Negativity.
Being a pessimistic guy whose really negative in his conversation will bring people down and sap their energy. If you have a friend that is negative and bitter about the world, being around him becomes a major bummer and his energy rubs off on you. If you’re a negative person you will have exactly the same affect on women, so try to stay positive and optimistic.
Mistake #3: Bad pick-up lines.
Pick-up lines in general do not work. Starting conversations with really cheap lines like, “Is your father a thief? Did he steal the stars in the sky and put them in your eyes?” is really tacky and useless, and what’s worse, it’s more amusing than anything and is not going to get you into her pants. Leave all your cheap, worthless pick up lines at the door. Women have heard them all and will turn their back on you in a heartbeat.
Mistake #4: Bad body odor.
People that smell in general, who have bad breath or lack in the personal hygiene department are not pleasant to be around. You should know this from experience; I’m sure you have been around someone who stinks. It causes you to want to get the hell away from them as quick as possible, and women react the same way. If you don’t tackle your body odor issue, you’ll find women won’t tackle you. Can you blame them?
Mistake #5: Desperation.
If you haven’t been laid in a while, or you’re really struggling with women, you can really project desperation in your body language. It could be in the way that you’re really pushing in an interaction to the point of almost coming off as a dog that’s just seeing her owner after being gone all day. So learn to cool your jets and don’t seem desperate or anxious to get laid.
If you’re at the point of desperation, you need to be very aware of how you could be projecting your desperation and try to eliminate it, even if it means faking it. It’s the only chance you’ll have in attracting women. Women simply don’t like desperate men. It makes them wonder if there is something wrong with you.
Mistake #6: Swearing excessively.
A little bit of swearing is fine but too much of it puts you in the category of being uneducated, unintelligent, and offensive. Just try to watch your tongue for the sake of your own stability. Swearing and women just don’t mix.
When you don’t use swear words in your conversations with women, it makes you sound more intelligent and ups your attraction scale ten-fold.
Mistake #7: Being overly effeminate.
Women want a REAL MAN. They want a guy that’s got testosterone exuding from every pore. They don’t want an effeminate guy who would make a better girlfriend. If you do have any outstanding effeminate traits, try to get more in touch with your masculine side.
Pick up a hobby or sport like boxing, boot camp or martial arts. Something that will help you get in touch with your masculine energy. You could plan a night out with the boys, go to a Polo match; anything that gets you more in touch with your inner man. Women want a man who takes the lead, one who is dominant in their approach and their game. I’m pretty sure they already have enough girlfriends.
Mistake #8: Being boring.
Think about how you live your life. Are you an interesting person? Are you exciting to be around? Women will find you interesting and intriguing and want to be around you if you lead an interesting life.
Learn to live a more interesting life by having passions and goals, so that when you talk to a woman you’re going to come across as someone who catches her attention, and possibly her fancy. She’ll find you engaging and want to learn more about you. She”ll be fascinated and want to hang around just to learn who you really are.
Mistake #9: Being too smooth.
It’s one thing to have confidence and amazing abilities in order to seduce women, but watch flattering yourself to the point of yuck. Women can be very cautious if you’re coming across as being too smooth. Adapt the shell of vulnerability and have flaws in your life because that’s what makes you human and unique. Try to find a balance between confidence and vulnerability, because no one is perfect, not even you.
Mistake #10: Having an over inflated ego.
A guy that has a large ego is either delusional or insecure, and neither one is attractive. She’s going to latch on to that right away and turn her back. Confidence is a great thing to have, but confidence can be conveyed without having to verbalize it. Guys that usually having large egos tend to advertise what they like, what they wear, and the car they drive, and bragging is a big turn off for women. It more or less comes across as being insecure and short in other areas of your life. So avoid it at all cost. Actions speak louder than words.
Well, there you have it. How to turn off women instead of how to turn them on. If you can avoid these mistakes in turning off the women you are seeking to attract, then you’ll turn them on with out much effort on your part. Here’s something that will make it even more effortless and all you have to do is ask 3 questions. She’ll be instantly turned on and eager for more if you use the secret revealed in this FREE video: Secret Seduction Sequence
