In a dance environment such as a club or a party, what are some common mistakes that guys are making? But more importantly, what can guys do to remedy the situation, and really improve their skills at turning women on?
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There’s a lot to be said here.
There are a lot of people saying different things about how to approach touching, and turning women on. I’d say the best way to understand how to touch women would be to check out our Escalation Ladder. It’s a free resource that is available online, is easily accessible, and easily read. It will give you the perfect progression and explain to you the different kinds of ways to touch a woman to really turn her on.
One thing that guys need to focus on is simply touching women more. You want to be the guy who touches her a lot, but does it in a way that’s very subtle and very incidental. What I mean by that is that there’s more to be said for brushing up against a woman, or having your thigh touch hers as you’re talking to her; then there is for doing something overt like hugging her, or slapping her on the ass, or something like that. So I think one thing guys have to realize is that they need to be more subtle. Subtlety actually creates sexual tension.
And how should guys take advantage of the dance floor?
The great thing about the dance floor is that it’s a very sexually conducive environment; but that doesn’t mean you have to push it too far. What it does is it allows you to get really close to her, and play with that sexual tension by touching her a lot more intimately. You already are well on your way to escalating with a woman if you’re already grabbing her and dancing with her in a sexual way, doing things like touching her neck or face can actually be really powerful.
Based on the Escalation Ladder, you know that class three touching (which is touching the neck and face area) is pretty much guaranteed permission to kiss her. But you don’t want to rush kissing her either. You want to wait till you have her alone, or at least in a sexual environment. Really good guys who are amazing with women wait till they have a woman in a sexual location, to really advance things and push things to that next level.
Once you get off the dance floor… do you know the best questions to ask her to keep that sexual vibe going?
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