Are you calm and collected?
How you carry yourself plays a significant factor in whether you turn women on or not…
Ultimately, when you want to turn women on there are lots of skills to learn.
But you want to take a look at the deep core here first though. At the core of knowing how to turn a woman on, you find the solution we call sexual polarity. This is essentially allowing the woman to fully understand and express her feminine energy, and in order for her to be able to do that, we need to be able to take control and take ownership of our masculine energy.
Sexual polarity is like how a magnet works.
Essentially, the stronger your masculine energy is, the more it’s going to give her the opportunity to really get in touch with her feminine energy. So one of the big keys of polarity is to recognize that females are generally a little bit emotionally unstable; they’ll jump from one emotion to another, and one emotion to another really quickly. In order for us to balance her out or help her feel a little bit more stable, you’ll find that the masculine energy is often a little bit more emotionally stable, it’s a bit more of a rock.
Polarity is everywhere.
Now the interesting thing about this principle is that’s it’s completely relevant regardless of whether a man’s in a relationship and he’s working on turning on his partner, or whether he’s going out to club environments, date environments, events, and social circles and meeting new women. The concept of polarity and the concept of being calm and collected becomes a massive turn on to women, regardless of the exact situation and exact environment.
What I find with a lot of students that I work with is, when they head out to a club as an example, and they see a girl who has a particular energy and they think that the best thing to get her excited is to go and mirror her. From my experience that doesn’t work, because it essentially now means she’s the rock and you’re trying to bend your reality to her specific situation.
Be calm and collected.
By far the most powerful thing for turning women on is just to develop that strong, calm, and collected energy yourself. Have her be drawn towards that energy and you’ll find that women are very malleable in that regard, and it’s just a great, sexually powerful quality to have.
So how do we develop this skill? For me, the way I did it was practicing the ‘apocalypse opener’, which was essentially opening to a girl, asking her what she was going to be doing later that night, and then asking her if she wanted to come back to my place, and then through that process creating tension and just being able to sit still and completely hold onto that tension and let it build, and not get the urge to fill that space with words. So what that did for me was essentially just create a space where I was putting myself in a super tense place, but I was able to completely hold on to just that masculine energy of calm in an under pressure situation.
I found that if I could be still with that particular tension building, maintaining that stillness both physically and also internally, when other pressures came up, interaction became incredibly easy.
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