Guys are always trying to come up with ways on how to woo a lady. After all, you want to be the one to catch her attention and charm her with your wily ways.
There are a couple of things I can think of offhand on how to woo a woman right into your arms. You want to be the one who charms her, catches her attention, and be the one she goes home with.
There are a couple of approaches I’ll mention that are extremely useful, but the number one thing you must remember is to be different than every other guy out there. You can’t use the same old pick up lines, because women have heard them all and many will walk away. You have to be the one who stands out from all the fish in the sea, and I’m going to tell you just how to do that.
Women love genuine compliments.
You can get a great reaction from any woman by a simple compliment. It must be sincere, because women can spot a fake a mile away.
If there is something that really attracts me to her, rather than not saying anything or going with a generic compliment, I will actually verbalize what I am really feeling and she will pick up on the sincere nature of my compliment.
Compliments are strong, but compliments are great when they come from the heart– when you’re being honest and genuine, because sincerity is felt and loved by all women. Giving compliments to a woman will endear you to her heart.
Be an active listener-don’t let what’s being said go in one ear and out the other.
Women like to talk, and oftentimes we don’t really hear what’s being said. It’s almost like that cartoon Charlie Brown, where his mother is always saying “wah wah wah”. Women often mention things that they like and it’s to your advantage to really listen and hear what they are saying.
When you become an active listener, you will pick up on things that they like,but the important thing here is that you’re conveying that what she is saying is worth listening to. For a lot of women, they just want to feel like they are important. Invest your time into hearing what she is really saying, and she just may appreciate you back in ways you didn’t think imaginable.
Do things that women enjoy; be an active participant.
For a lot of woman, there are going to be things that they’re going to like that you don’t like, or things that they like doing that perhaps maybe even surprise you. Invest your time into doing things that she really likes and she will very much appreciate that.
One thing that I’ve been taken to in the past that I’ve felt were really boring but I did it because I cared about her was the ballet. I have no interest in ballet dancing, but the fact that she was enjoying herself was good enough for me. And she really appreciated the fact that I was doing something for her.
Another time I went to a particular foreign movie which I had no interest in. It was a bit more of a chick flick than anything. and was like major boring, But I paid for the both of us, and I did it because I really loved her and I wanted to do something that she enjoyed rather than be selfish.
Don’t be ordinary, be extraordinary.
One way to impress a woman is to do something really special, that breaks up the monotony of just going out to any old restaurant or your general generic date. I know that picnics work really well, and so does going on romantic walks.
You want to come up with ideas that she probably hasn’t done in awhile, or maybe never done before. Figure out something that is romantic, intimate, and just breaks up the normalcy of life. Doing something a little bit different will make a lasting impression on her, and she’ll love you for it. That’s how you charm a lady.
Learn to be affectionate.
Do anything that displays your affection for her when she’s least expecting it. It could be walking somewhere and you just grab her and give her a kiss. Learn to be spontaneous and loosen up a bit. Do something totally out of the blue and exhilarating and you will woo the socks off of her.
If you’re a creative guy, another way that you can woo a girl is to express your feelings for her in a creative way. You could write poetry, write a song, or draw a painting of her. Anything where you can creatively express your feelings for her in a sentimental way that shows her you appreciate or find her special. Women love sentimentality, and to make her feel special will have her treating you like a king.
Read over my suggestions, and find ways to implement them into your dates. The benefits you reap from being different, creative, affectionate, and actually showing that you care will be worth the time you put into the date and your woman. How to woo a woman is not really that hard, and worth all the effort that you put into it.