Dear Vin, I’m not exactly the hottest guy in the bar.
Some chics may even call me ugly, although I’ve got a lot of other things going for me. Any idea how I can up my game and get laid as an ugly guy?
For a lot of ugly guys this sounds really interesting, but really how do ugly guys get laid with really attractive girls.
I’ve seen it a lot. A guy that I know is a fairly average looking guy. You could even call him an ugly guy. But he always dates models.
I want to give you the mindset he has that allows him to do it. It’s a really critical mindset, it’s a mindset that you can learn to cultivate over time and it’s something that’s definitely doable.
I’m about to teach you the exact mindset that you need to know to see how ugly guys get laid.
If you have other questions about getting laid, please write in the comments. I answer each one personally.
Looks are Irrelevant
Now this mindset is called the “I don’t give a fuck” mindset and it’s a really powerful mindset to have.
This mindset can influence every aspect of your life. The reason I call that the “I don’t give a fuck” mindset, is because my ugly friend tends to be very carefree. He is very easy and tends not to worry about things too much. He has a high tolerance for stress, uncertainty, and is willing to take risks.
So when he sees a really attractive girl like a model, a lot of normal guys will think and wonder if she has high standards. They might question themselves, Am I good enough?
How ugly guys get laid is by being super ballsy and confident really.
My friend just thinks: I don’t give a fuck, I’m just going to go do it. He just goes up with balls and courage and just approaches the girl.
He doesn’t care if he gets rejected, he doesn’t care if she doesn’t like him, and he doesn’t care if it goes bad. He really doesn’t care, he just moves on to the next girl. It’s this I don’t give a fuck attitude that will get a lot of really ugly guys laid, more than anything else.
Guys who are sometimes not traditionally good looking can sometimes get really insecure and frustrated by their looks. Some even get hung up on how they look and it can start to overpower them. They can start to be really sensitive and really reactive to what girls say and do.
So I highly recommend learning to not give a fuck.
Seriously… learning to be much more carefree, much more willing to take risks, and not taking things personally will let you be so much more free. You won’t be affected by rejection,negativity, or get caught up with bad responses. You can grow a thick skin and to be able to move on fairly quickly when things don’t go your way.
In fact, if you don’t get a response from a girl you like, just don’t even give it a second thought. You want to only remember the good stuff.
Remember the times you’ve done amazing things. Maybe you’ve picked up girls or had success at work. Remember those times. That’s going to fuel your “I don’t give a fuck” attitude. The other attitude you don’t want to cultivate is one where you think too seriously about things and you think too much about the possible downside.
In fact, any guy can learn this attitude, because I’ll tell you what, when it comes to getting high quality women, you’ve got to “not give a fuck”.
Another thing that my ugly friend who gets laid all the time does is that he has STAYING POWER.
He is extremely persistent, because his feelings don’t get hurt if he is rejected. He just keeps going after what he wants and he ends up getting it a lot of times.
Here is some homework to help you train that skill.
(1) Do something longer than the point that you normally would give up.
(2) Stand up for your rights more.
(3) Be more assertive in your everyday life.
(4) Really push your brain to exhaustion.
(5) Run until you get a stitch.
(6) Sleep less than you normally would.
(7) Try and do a week’s work in a single day.
(8) Study masculinity.
(9) Do something physically testing, far outside your normal capability.
(10) Get a full-on sports massage (the really painful type).
Another technique that ugly guys can use is to base your techniques around science. In particular female psychology. Women are very emotional and if you can instantly make women feel certain ways, anything superficial stops being a factor.
Check out this FREE VIDEO where I explain how you can exploit a loophole in female psychology to make her feel overwhelming attraction in an instant. It’s easy to do, and it might actually shock you when you watch it below…
