Liking a friend isn’t a bad thing. Take these steps to date your friend.
Start by recognizing that you have taken a big step…
This is actually a good thing. To be perfectly honest, I don’t have any female friends that I would consider as just friends. So when a guy is starting to recognise that he’s physically attracted to his friends, what it’s usually an indication of at a core level, he is becoming a sexual being and he’s recognising himself as a sexual being.
You want a sexual undercurrent with all your female relationships. It doesn’t mean you have to have sex with all your female friends, although as you become better with women that tends to become a reality.
Learning to develop that sexual connection is what you can work on now by doing this:
1. Accept that you are a sexual creature.
Accept the fact that you are a sexual creature. It is perfectly okay for you to be attracted to females, whether they’re your friends or not. You’re evolutionary hardwired to respond to women, so your natural polarity will draw women into your life. You’ll feel more complete, as a male, when you have females around you. When you accept that this WILL happen… then you can start.
2. Create sexual tension.
Sexual tension is where there’s a hint of sex, but there’s some barrier that is preventing the act of sex taking place. Being in a situation, where you have female friends, can be a great starting point for building sexual tension. Just little things, like hinting at things that highlight her feminine energy, can really help build the sexual tension because the two of you recognize that you can’t just necessarily have sex. You’ve already got this friendship going and it can potentially damage your friendship.
Mention little sexual hints to create tension.
By identifying these things that you like about her on a physical level, like the way she smells, the way she’s done her hair, the way she’s moving or something that she’s been working on, and you can just say ‘wow, you smell really nice today, what is that fragrance that you’ve got on?’ That’s not overstated. It’s something that you can still feel comfortable expressing with a friend, but it just lets know that you’re noticing her. This will really help you with how to flirt with a friend and move towards showing more interest in them.
3. Get her alone.
Step number three would be to put yourself in situations where the two of you can be alone. Maybe it’s a situation where you guys go on a fun play date, where you go mountain climbing or go for a hike through one of the local parks. Try situations where you can get her alone with you and you can do a variety of different activities. That way, as you build that sexual tension, it’s going to be heightened because there’s no other distractions for her. It’s just the two of you spending time together and eventually that’s going to get out of control.
4. Grab a bottle of wine.
The final thing that I would say is, don’t be afraid to incorporate alcohol when moving things in a sexual direction with friends. I’m not talking about getting a girl plastered so she’s incapacitated to make decisions. I’m just talking about being fun and a little bit socially lubricated, so the two of you have an excuse to make for why you’re jumping from a friendship to a sexual connection. Then once you’ve made that jump, it’s so much easier to stay in it.
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