Prove you love your girlfriend, by gaining a thorough understanding of yourself…
You are missing something.
If a guy wants to prove his love to his girlfriend, then he’s missing something in his life. When we love our girlfriend, the love shouldn’t be forced. It should flow naturally. When we actually do let it flow naturally, there should be no misunderstanding on her behalf. She will know that you love her.
By question though is: How are your communication skills?
There are three components to communication and connection The initial point is the intent, the second part is the expression, and then the third part is the way that it’s received.
Look deeper at your intent.
If your intent is to love your girlfriend, and that message is not getting through, then there’s some sort of filter that is stopping you from being able to express what you feel. Ultimately, your intent and your expression should be exactly the same. But you need to take full ownership of everything in your life, your thoughts, and your actions to make this happen. Then, if your girl is open and receptive, she’s going to be able to receive that information.
But f you are saying to yourself that you have to try harder to make sure your girlfriend gets that you really love her, then something is wrong on an internal level. Do some self-exploration and figure out your self-worth, your self-belief, and your self-confidence.
The flashlight of your self-confidence.
The analogy I use for this is a flashlight. The light shining out is basically your intent. Now if the lens — or your personality and your self-confidence — if the lens is dirty and cracked, that light is not going to be able to shine out and people are not going to be able to see it clearly. However, if the person has done some work on themselves — if they’ve invested in themselves and they’ve worked on their skills and their self-belief — that lens is not only going to be crystal clear but it’s going to magnify. So when you hit the switch and the light comes on, what people will see at the other side, the expression is going to be crystal clear and anyone ought to be able to read it really clearly.
Invest in yourself.
It comes back to just being able to put time and energy into yourself. There are some really great self-compassion exercises. Maybe just spending some time to sit down and look at yourself in the mirror, and just talking for as long as you can on all the things that you talk about with yourself. Day one when you do this, it might be a little bit challenging. You may only come up with two or three things. You might not be able to come up with anything. But day two, day three, day four, you’ll notice some shift starting to take place. And, you’ll notice that there are some things that pop up that you do like about yourself and just by putting some focus on this part of your life you’re going to start to value yourself a little bit more.
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