Loving two women happens all the time… but what can you do?
This is a common situation, unfortunately.
I remember, one time I got a really attractive girlfriend and at the time I had to make a tough decision, because there was this other attractive Norwegian girl who liked me as well. I learned some huge lessons from this experience, that you can learn below.
Go with your intuition.
Sometimes we can fall in the trap of thinking about these situations far too logically. We try to weigh it up on paper and analyze the positives and the negatives, but I would probably encourage you to see what you feel. Get in touch with your inner intuition and your gut instincts — but also, do not make a decision too quickly.
Sometimes, when you’ve got two women to pick from, the tendency can be to try to make a decision as fast as possible between which one of them you want to date. Maybe this is the same motivation that arises when you want to pull a bandage off quickly. Perhaps you think it will hurt you less. Perhaps you think it will hurt the two women less. But it is important to give yourself a chance to feel all your options.
You have a number of options.
Within the modern dating game, it’s not abnormal to be dating multiple people up to the point in time, when the relationship becomes very serious. Have you had “the talk” yet? When you have the kind of talk where the two of you agree to be committed to each other and to be faithful, then your options have closed. Sometimes guys can try to pull the trigger too quickly on getting a girlfriend, before things materialize into something that’s serious. You need to let things gel a little longer, before you attempt to settle down.
Take your time.
If you love two people, I would encourage you to let it cruise for a period of time and see what evolves. When you’re at the point when you must make a decision, go with your instincts. One of the most important mindsets to have at this point in time is to be optimistic. To feel like, when you’ve made your decision, you’ve made the right one.
If you’re a pessimistic person, this is a bad situation, because you’re always going to think to yourself about what you missed out on and what could have been. You may even negatively affect the relationship that you choose, by being a negative person or thinking these negative thoughts. This can provide a good opportunity for you to be optimistic and have the ability to move on.
For me, moving on from a girl I like isn’t a big deal. I just move on very quickly, meet another woman, and start to like her. I don’t get trapped in the past, but for a lot of guys getting trapped in the past is a certain, surefire way to torture themselves. In love with two people or entangled with two people, if you are in pain, you need to make a decision.
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