At the risk of stating the obvious, sex appeal is a good thing. – and here’s some simple ways to boost it
Guys want to be that sexy and attractive guy. They want to attract the opposite sex. But, having sex appeal is not something that happens overnight and it’s not something that happens by accident. You want to have a bit of a plan.
What you want to do is attack it from all angles.
I would be studying sex appeal. I would be looking online to answer, ‘What is sex appeal?’ so that you can get a good idea of what it is and how you can develop more sex appeal.
Ask your female friends what sex appeal means to them, because it’s going to mean a lot of different things for a lot of different girls.
Different girls will have a lot of different views on what sex appeal is and what it means to them. It could be the way a guy carries himself, it could be the way a guy dresses, and it could be the way that he thinks or the way that he starts conversations. All of these things are involved in sex appeal.
Look in magazines and those sorts of things.
Look at the stars or celebrities, you know, your classic examples of what massive sex appeal is. These are people like Russell Brand, Hugh Jackman, and David Beckham. These are the kinds of models you want to be looking at. Look at how they’re dressed.
You can always get cheaper versions of what they’re wearing that are similar if you go out and get a stylist. So firstly, overhaul your fashion sense and your style to dress sexier. Throw out your turtleneck cardigan and your baggy jeans or cargo pants. Get more fitted clothing. Get a nice fitted shirt.
Also, there’s no way you’re talking about how to increase your sex appeal if you have boring topics when you’re speaking.
Stop talking about the weather, stop talking about what someone does for a living and start talking about what turns girls on and what the craziest or fun thing you’ve ever done is. If she says something that’s you wouldn’t find crazy, turn the conversation more sexual.
Get in touch with your own body more.
Finding what you like is another really good thing to do. Also, just become more and more comfortable with the fact that sex is a normal thing. Don’t be ashamed to bring those topics up. Focus on flirting and really work on it a lot more, as well. All of those are different angles you want to cover.
Another thing I would work on is having strong eye contact.
Direct your sexual intent with just the use of your eyes, your body language, your touch, and things like that.
“What else can I do?”
You can ask yourself what your sex appeal rating would be out of ten, and get an answer for that. You could ask some of the people close to you; maybe your sister, or close female friends. Ask them what your sex appeal is from one to ten. If you’re asking this question, I’m guessing it might be low, or you might just want to increase it more. Disarm them by telling them that you’re not asking if you’re attractive or not, just asking about sex appeal.
Also, ask them what are some things you could do to increase your sex appeal. Then you will have some unbiased feedback from someone who cares about you. You can then take that advice on board and start implementing it today.
Know exactly what to say to a girl that’ll skyrocket your sex appeal like magic.
Sex appeal may mean a hundred different things to a hundred different women but you can find out what works for the gorgeous gal you’re chatting up right now with 3 innocent questions. I cover them in detail in this video: 3 questions to turn her on