So you want to woo the girl of your dreams into your bed, but you are a bit shy?
Don’t worry with these techniques you cannot lose.
If you’re the more sweet, introverted type of guy, these are the romantic techniques to woo your girl and make sure she never forgets you.
1. Use shyness to your advantage.
First of all, the fact that you’re more of a shy guy and less of an outrageous, boisterous guy, can actually play to your favor here. The fact that you don’t come out of your shell very much, will make it seem all the more special when you finally do, and will make her think that she’s really captured your attention.
2. Be romantic.
One idea to woo her and appeal more to her romantic side, is to play little games. Not mind games, but actual fun games; I mean here games in the literal sense. The best way to go about doing this is by coming up with your own little games that you can play. In the past I have come up with several little games that I’ve played.
For instance, the $2 game. When I meet a girl for the first time, I tell her, “Hey, let’s play the $2 game.” And of course, she says, “What is the $2 game?” And so I explain, “We have to buy a gift for each other, but we’re not allowed to spend any more than $2.” We depart not long after, but now of course we also have a good reason to exchange details, to find each other and give each other the gifts.
When we do meet up again we bring each other a gift, and that’s just a sweet thought in and of itself. Now this is just one of many games that I’ve come up with. The mindset here is to think, “What would be a thoughtful way of incorporating this game into helping me meet women.”
3. Ask yourself these questions.
There are a whole set of questions that you should be asking yourself:
- “How can I make meeting women fun?”
- “How can I make meeting women more romantic?”
- “What are some sweet games I can play that will make her feel special?”
The answer to these questions will give you ample ways to employ your own ideas, and make up some truly unique games that will be romantic, fun, and engaging.
Ask yourself, what are some sweet things that would be memorable, or different from what most guys would do when approaching the seduction or dating game; and then come up with ten different variations on your own little games. These games are a lot more exciting, romantic, and sweet than just picking a girl up.
4. Avoid cheese.
Keep in mind though that you want to stay away from any cheesiness. Like if you’re meeting a girl, don’t bring her roses or anything like that. That could of course be awesome, but if you’re doing that for all the women that you meet, then it will lose its value. So the key here is really to be personalizing your approach for each girl, and doing so will greatly increase your chances of her feeling special, and remembering you, and wanting to meet you again.
These could just be little things that you and her do together. If you have a situation where you live together, consider just doing the dishes every once in a while, or cooking a meal or something. Even if it’s just a simple breakfast like cooking bacon and eggs, it’s the thought that counts and women are going think that’s really sweet, and they will remember that.
Thoughtfulness is key, so here are some simple steps that you can take to start doing sweet things for her:
- Find out what she likes to eat, watch, read, or do.
- Figure out ways to provide those things to her when she least expects it.
- Ask yourself, “How can I make this more personalized?”
The amount of thought you put in to doing even small things for her will really resonate with girls for years to come.
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