Scandal in Hollywood: Katie Holmes filled for a divorce from Tom Cruise… but it’s not for the reasons you think…
… In fact, this recent breakup has lessons for every man who wants to keep a gorgeous woman like Katie.
The biggest lesson is:
Compromise
The main reason for their divorce? His small mindedness.
Yes, Tom’s inability to let go of Scientology meant Katie couldn’t get her way in their relationship.
And a woman who feels left out is likely to cheat. Or find her thrills, elsewhere.
Tip: When you land an amazing woman, keep her contributing to your life.
I call this “Compliance” and it’s the most powerful psychological trigger on Earth.
Here’s how it works:
When a normal man invites a normal woman out on a date, he takes care of everything. He makes reservations, he pays the bill and he even buys the cab ride home.
He thinks he’s being romantic. He’s really shooting himself in the foot.
Because dating isn’t a monologue, it’s a two way conversation. When you keep the woman from contributing, she feels left out of the conversation. (And is in no mood to make love.)
Instead of paying the full bill, offer to let her buy dessert. Or ask her wear something specific to dinner.
This little trick gets her working for your attention. And simply asking her to wear “that black dress” puts her in the psychological mood to “work” for sex with you, later on in the night.
You can use Compliance at every stage of the dating game:
1. Just met her? Ask her to hold something while you find your phone. (Then ask her to put her phone number in, since she knows it better than you do.)
2. Your first date? Try making her win a stuffed toy or prize for you, from one of the local “claw” machines. (If she wins, she gets a kiss. If she doesn’t, she gets a spanking.)
3. Losing the romance in your relationship? Tell your girlfriend or wife to plan a romantic getaway for you. Then surprise her by tying her up and letting her lose control.
You see, Compliance is the secret spice which gives “nice” relationships that extra fire.
And without it, your “spicy” relationship could burn out quicker than Tom and Katie’s.
Your Friend,
- Vin
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