How can a guy make a girl weak in the knees just by kissing her?
What sort of time frame are we talking about in this escalation of kissing? Does this happen in ten minutes? Twenty minutes, an hour?
I think that the escalation of kissing can happen over any period of time. Here is an example of one of my timelines. I meet a girl in a club that I have never seen before, but there is something about her energy that I resonate with. I want to get to know her better. If I feel like there is a little bit of a connection and spark, then it would be reasonable for me to expect to kiss her anywhere from five to fifteen minutes into the interaction.
I personally like to focus on kissing a girl as soon as I can.
I think it shows positive qualities about me. In making a girl weak at the knees, it is all about letting her know what you want, which is her. Then going after it, not letting any obstacles or distractions get in your way or stop you from being aggressive. You can demonstrate this to a girl. You can demonstrate that you want to escalate on her. Even if she rejects you, you will find that on some level she will be incredibly attracted to you.
The phrase that I like to use is, “Escalation is attractive.”
What that means is that girls love a guy who will go after what he wants. Even if she is rejecting him, she will actually become more attracted to him. I have had situations where a girl has rejected me several times. One particular situation comes to mind. I just kept trying to kiss this girl. When she rejected me, I did not make a big deal about it. In fact, I did not even bring any attention to it. I just continued to physically escalate. I continued to keep the conversation flowing. When I spotted a high point for her, I would lean it to try to kiss her.
When a girl rejects you, the mindset that I like to take is that she is not saying no… she is just saying not yet.
What that means is that she may want you to put a little more effort in. She may want to feel more secure being around you. She may also want to put herself into a more private setting, especially if she has friends nearby. There are many reasons why she may not want to kiss you in that particular setting. Maybe one of her ex-boyfriends is a security guard and she does not feel comfortable for your safety or for hers.
Go after what you want.
Make no apologies for it. If you get rejected, simply ignore it and be persistent recognizing that every time you are rejected she is becoming a bit more attracted to you. Eventually, you want to find a way that you can isolate her. When a guy does demonstrate that he is persistent, girls fall. Once they fall for you, they fall for you quickly.
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