What are some kissing tips that you have implemented that really do make a difference?
I think being a rock star is essentially just being seen as someone that stands out in the crowd.
Someone who has a lot of women in his life and someone who knows how to treat women. What I like to do with women, is to treat my kisses as being gifts that I can give to them. I want my kisses to be somewhat scarce. It’s almost like they have to work for my kisses.
It starts really early in the interaction.
Where whenever she does something that I think is really good, maybe she tells me about something that she is passionate about. Perhaps she tells me about an escalation that she has, or about how ambitious she is or adventurous she is? Anytime she does something that I approve of, I’ll reward her with my touch.
I start to get to a situation where I’m actually physically escalating her high points.
Now, the frame that this sets for her, on a subconscious level, is that she is working for my approval. My approval will be my touch. So if she continues to work hard to win me over, I’m going to continue to reward her by escalating my touch.
Then that gets to a point where when she starts to do things for me, that maybe a groupie might do for a rock star. Sort of a frame, like buy me a drink or buy me a gift. Then I’ll reward that gift with my kiss. Otherwise, I don’t go out of my way to try and kiss her. I only want to kiss her, if its in alignment with a reward for something that she’s done to win my approval.
This can be a really powerful frame.
As you move up the ladder and you recognize the balance, as the reward that you’re giving her gets bigger, so does the effort that she’s making for that reward. It gets to a point where, if you’re going to reward her with sex or you’re going to reward her with the opportunity for her to go down on you, she’ll be doing all sorts of things for you.
She’ll be bringing you gifts, she’ll be driving to come and see you and she’ll be flying you out to her city to come and spend the weekend with you. That’s how a guy can use his touch, use his kiss and use his sex – or essentially the gift of him – to create the frame of a rock star.
Vin sometimes refers to it as the “reverse supplication game”.
It’s really, really powerful and it’s something that we need to be careful with, because we don’t want it to end up in the wrong hands. It’s definitely a new level of game. If you use this in the right way, you can literally have women eating out of your hand and going out of their way to do things for you.
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