Meeting girls is easy as pie once you become comfortable.
So, what does a guy need to do to get more comfortable about meeting girls?
There are a few elements and strategies you can implement to become more comfortable and increase your game with meeting girls.
Which of these tips will you use straight away to help you with meeting girls? I’d love to hear your feedback – please use the comment box below.
1. Go on Dates
In order to be comfortable with girls, you must start to date as much as you possibly can. Anytime you get the opportunity to go out with a girl even if you are not attracted to her, go!
Even if you are not attracted to your date, make the effort because it is part of a bigger plan. It is part of being able to adjust to different women, to be comfortable with women, talk with women and build rapport with women.
Take on as many opportunities as possible. Every time you connect with a girl or have a bit of a small conversation, always ask for her number and try hard to set a date with her. This helps you to expose yourself to more and more girls.
1. Go Online
I also have gone online, interacted with girls online and went out on dates with them. It is really just bombarding yourself with opportunities to date women and to be exposed with different women and to just be around them more to become comfortable being around them.
2. Control your Nerves
You are going to have some nerves and that is a good thing, because it means that you actually really like the person.
It is when you cannot control your nerves is when it becomes a problem. The more we are exposing ourselves to being around women, the more we can actually control those nerves. Do not get deterred by having a few butterflies in your stomach when you are meeting a girl that you are attracted to, because it is really normal. Every guy does it. It doe s not matter how good he is with women.
3. Understand Women
Another thing that got e comfortable with women, is understanding women. When I was getting out there, I had no idea at all. I was very uncomfortable because I was always thinking; I should be done something right now. Is she giving me signals? I do not really know. I did not understand the situation very well and it made me uncomfortable, because it did not make me feel like I was in control.
When I actually took the time to learn about women, learn about signals they give off, learn about what actually attracts a girl and learn how to conduct myself in a date, I felt more empowered and I felt I can actually have some control over the situation and read the situation a little bit better.
4. Be in the Moment
The other thing is, and this is a very hard thing to do it is easier said than done, but it really works is when you are present and you are allowing yourself to be present in the moment, not thinking about what is going to happen down the track, not thinking about your past rejections or anything that have happened to you in the past, but you are there present in the moment enjoying the girl’s company.
Generally, when I feel like I am present is when I am in a zone. I get in the zone when I am really confident and I feel good about myself. I am really just engaged in a girl and I can be present and focused in her and not going to be thinking about what is going to happen in the next couple of minutes or is this girl going to walk out on me like the girl did two dates ago. I am just with her in the moment and present.
Follow these four steps and you will be more comfortable and meeting girls every day of the week!
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