Do you constantly look down on yourself, even when things are going well in your life? If so, you need to learn self-love.
Self-love and self-confidence are essential if you want to be better with women. You must love yourself before you can love anyone else. I want to give you a few things that will help you develop self-love.
I’m interested to hear what you say about self-love and self-confidence. I reply to all comments personally so tell me what you think.
1. Be Attractive
First of all, you got to be more attractive, not physically but emotionally and personality-wise. A guy who loves himself makes it easier for others to love him. Loving yourself equates to happiness and energy. I notice when guys lack self-love, they go out on a Sunday night and have no energy so they end up leaving early. Lack of self-love is emotionally draining. This will also help you to have more confidence with girls.
2. Create a Victory Log
On the victory log you are going to write down all the successes you have had in your life so far. Include anything positive that has ever happened to you or that you have accomplished; for example, sporting wins, breakthroughs, positive changes, positive decisions or any good fortune.
Carry your victory log in your wallet and look at it as often as you can or at least once a day. Particularly look at it if something bad goes wrong or you are having a period where you are lacking that sense of self-love. The little tool will give you positive affirmations at all times to create positive, self-loving thoughts. Use these positive moments in your life to be more interesting during conversations and when on dates.
If you do not have many achievements or proud moments, go out and make some! Run a marathon, play in a sports league or achieve a personal goal. Accomplish something as simple as beating your buddy in a round of golf; anything that will create self-worth.
3. Remove Tolerations from your Life
One of the things that can really eliminate your sense of self-love is tolerations. Tolerations are anything that you are tolerating such as anything that is draining your energy, anything that frustrates or annoys you. Start a list of them right now and look to get rid of them in your life.
Nothing will increase your self-love like removing toleration on a daily basis. Doing this just shows that you value yourself, you feel that you deserve good things, and it just develops that sense of appreciation of yourself. You are good enough, you do not need to put up with tolerations, you have self-worth and can make the change.
Overall, you must learn self-appreciation and self-confidence, with that self-love will come naturally.
The more you love yourself, the better you’ll be with women. They pick up on your demeanor, trust me. Are you dating the hot women you deserve? If not, you need to watch my FREE video and make some changes. It won’t be online long, watch it NOW and start living the life YOU want…
What do you find challenging about self-love and self-confidence? Please comment in the box below and I will personally respond to each post.