Do you have fantasies of watching lesbian sex? Are you turned on by girl on girl action?
Does the idea of a possible threesome involving a girl and another girl excite you? Would you like to know how to get a girl to like a girl?
Have you ever been involved in a threesome, or sat back and watched as two girls went after each other? Was it as exciting as you had anticipated? Please comment in the box below, I would love to hear your reactions!
Find two girls who are into each other and into you; what a three-way party you'll have!
One of the great things about developing this part of your life is that you develop awareness about what it is that women are attracted to. This gives you the ability to get girls attracted to other girls in a way that will heighten both girls attraction to you. So, the big question here is: how to get a girl to like a girl?
Realize that all girls are bi-curious.
All girls are just curious. The sooner that you realize this, the quicker you can take advantage and the more effective you will be at building attraction.
Think of your craziest sexual fantasy, your deepest darkest desire, that fantasy that is far too depraved to tell anyone; now take that fantasy and multiply it by ten. Now you are getting close to where most women’s heads go when they think about sex.
I had a real awakening when I read Nancy Friday’s “My Secret Garden”; a collection of stories from women in the 70’s who talk about their sexual fantasies. Let me tell you, the 70′s was where the sexual revolution was happening. Girl on girl, sex with strangers, and even rape fantasies; this acknowledged that women are sexual people with unlimited unfilled desires. Knowing this will give you a massive leg up on the competition.
This article helps to dispel some of the incorrect beliefs about girls who like girls and will educate you on how you can be more facilitating in this process. It will help you understand exactly what attracts girls to girls.
Tip number one is a term called “shaping”.
If you could shape a girl on particular characteristics that you think would be beneficial to her being open to experimenting with another girl, what would they be? Two qualities that would be advantageous would be the ability to shape her for being spontaneous and adventurous.
Shaping is essentially the process of highlighting and magnifying different aspects of a girl’s personality in her own mind, so that when opportunities arise with these characteristics come up in the future, she will be more likely to respond in a particular way.
Essentially, what happens on a scientific level is it brings different levels of her personality to her reticular activating system which makes her more aware of those particular personality traits.
Have you ever bought a new car and directly after buying it noticed that it existed everywhere around you. It is highly unlikely that there are more of these particular cars on the road today than what there were yesterday, but now your reticular activation system is more in tune with it.
One way that we can shape girls qualities is to ask her if she is spontaneous or adventurous. The simple act of her confirming this is a positive trait and means that in future acts, she is more likely to be spontaneous and adventurous, it’s in her nature.
To deepen this commitment, you might ask her what was the most spontaneous thing she has ever done, or when was the last time that she was extremely adventurous. This will help confirm in her own mind that she really is this type of person.
Tip number two is to assume.
Another way to shape someone’s behavior is to just assume that they are a particular way. If your assumption is strong enough and you have a particularly strong frame, that person will basically be sucked into your reality.
I don’t know what previous cultures were like but my assumption is that all girls under the age of 30 have had some sort of bi-curious experience, whether it be kissing another friend in high school on a dare, maybe just experimenting and touching each other to see what it’s about, or even going further and they actually were into girls who liked pussy.
For that reason, when I ask a girl what types of girls she is into I generally expect a response. Ninety-nine percent of the time I get one. In the very odd situation where I don’t get a positive response I will ask the girl why she is not interested in other girls. I find girls to be absolutely beautiful.
If she lets me know that she just doesn’t swing that way I say to her I thought you told me that you were adventurous? I am essentially challenging her on her congruence.
Tip number three is no judgement.
This is the key to your success with having girls like other girls. If your goal is to get them to make out in front of you at a club or come home with you and have a threesome, you have to have already demonstrated that you are someone who doesn’t judge. This isn’t a switch that you can flip on and off in a particular situation.
It has to resonate through everything that you do. You have to demonstrate that you are open minded with all components to life; race, people’s personal preferences, religious and cultural values, and certainly with sexual experiences.
I am not saying that you can’t have opinions; in fact opinions are very powerful. It’s just that you don’t want to close yourself off to what other people think of experiences. You certainly don’t want to judge them or make them feel insecure about their preferences. Just don’t make these mistakes with women, or you’ll lose. No one likes being judged.
The final point that I want to make about getting girls to like girls is that it is okay to be turned on by this, but you don’t want to be the peep show guy; the guy who is leering at two girls making out like he is seeing his first boob.
Girls love the idea that you get turned on by them, but they don’t like the idea that you just jazzed in your pants in their presence. A little bit of self-control in the situation will go a long way. Ask if you can jump in and touch while they touch. They may be more willing then you think!
Lesbian sex is definitely an adventure to watch, but having a threesome is much more advantageous and fun for all. Take all these tips I have given you and live your fantasy. If you’re ready to make a threesome reality, watch my FREE video while it’s still online. After you learn a few simple secrets, you’ll always be able to convince women to fulfill you’re every desire…
