From a man’s point of view can love really make you happy?
You aren’t just looking to get as many women in bed as you can, right?
Some guys just want to find a girlfriend and enjoy having a relationship with her. Some guys just want to be happy knowing they can connect with a woman. Is this the kind of guy you are?
Beware though… It is also true that that if you come from a place of neediness and you undermine your own value, then you will settle for just getting a girl. This never works out down the road, because you aren’t complete in yourself. You are going to be disappointed.
The great think about meeting lots of women and even having a few girlfriends is that you start to learn and recognise what you want in a woman. What kind of standards do you want for yourself? What kind of woman is compatible with you? This can be great for your, because when you do find that one special girlfriend, it will actually be a girlfriend that deserves to be in your life. This is usually the relationship that you’ve always been looking for.
Some guys ask me… Can love make you happy?
It depends what you call love. A lot of the time when a guy falls in love with a girl it’s coming from a place of neediness and of thinking that girl is going to make him complete. They attribute having an attractive girl in their life as meaning that they’re a person of worth. What this tells me is that, that guy doesn’t have too much self worth. A guy like that is going to see love as making him happy and probably is going to get into a lot of toxic and negative relationships.
Do you need to have love to make yourself happy?
When you can come from a solid foundation of learning how to improve your confidence, improve your self-esteem, and give yourself respect. Then you will see yourself as having high value (which is true). Then the girl you end up in a relationship with will be a woman you enjoy and you can really could see yourself being with for the rest of your life.
Love can make you happy, if you are going into the relationship with the one special girl that you really connect with on different planes. But if the relationship is not built on a foundation of comfort and friendship between the two of you, then the love you think you have might not make you happy, like you imagined you would be.
Love can’t be your everything.
First, find a girl you can connect with emotionally, intellectually, sexually and all that. Then find the bonds of friendship that make the day to day life so much better. Spend a good amount of time together to make sure that you can be comfortable in quiet times as well as active. Two people should be able to share a space without having to constantly talk and be together. If you can find that sense of timelessness with her you may have hit the mother lode. If you can find all of that, love can make you happy.
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