Are there any special secrets as to how I can make a girl feel comfortable around me?
I don’t think we necessarily have to limit this to the Asian girls, but what’s the deal with women who need to feel comfortable and safe? Is that a common thing you run into?
I think it is incredibly common with Asians, but as you have pointed out already there are other cultures that I think fall into this bracket as well. Some girls in specific cultures just have these personality traits. The thing with a lot of Asian women is that because of their cultural upbringing, they are very submissive in nature.
A lot of the times they are a little bit shy or a little bit introverted. It pays to understand people, as well as different cultures.
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From that perspective, it’s not to say that they don’t have a big personality somewhere inside of them.
But in order to feel more comfortable connecting to that bigger personality, and bringing it out in the world around them, they need to feel comfortable in their environment. I think this is true of all women. Regardless of what their outer shell is or what sort of energy they put out to the world, all women want to feel safe, and all women long for security.
I think it’s a part of the natural polarity when we look at masculine energy and feminine energy.
One of the more powerful roles that a male plays is that of protector and provider. What that means is that they are able to provide shelter and food for the woman. They are able to protect her so that she feels safe.
I think that is one of the reasons that women are evolutionarily attracted to taller, bigger, and stronger men. They are better able to provide that physical safety. The other aspect of safety that we consider less often is emotional safety. If you can provide a safe space where a girl can express herself without judgment, and she feels like she can communicate her ideas with you, she will be more open to voicing them and exploring them. This is a fantastic gift that we can give women.
A lot of times you will find that women will open up, not in terms of their personality, but open up sexually if they feel comfortable in that environment.
What really stops them from exploring those deeper, darker sexual desires is they feel that if they do bring that up in a guy’s presence that he is going to judge her. He’s not going to see her as a potential long term option.
The reality for most guys is that this could not be further from the truth. But in order to allow her to really get in touch with her energy, and explore it, he needs to be able to provide that safe environment, and he needs to make her feel completely comfortable and let her know that she won’t be judged.
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