Do you have sexy food ideas to spice up a date, Vin?
The senses are so important, and I’ve heard that some people are trying to get a little more creative. Some men are even referring to certain foods as “sexy”. So what are some of the ways we can incorporate other senses, besides just hearing and seeing each other, to really make the date or the connection we have much stronger?
Anything can be sexy, if you make it sexy.
If you’re got a bit of a sexual undercurrent right from the start of your interaction, then it doesn’t matter whether you’re eating in a restaurant; going to see a concert; or hanging out with people – it’s going to be sexy.
The key to making a date sexy is to feel sexy yourself, and to then project that.
Regarding the senses… which you were asking about earlier, I agree that using as much of the senses as possible will greatly assist in the dating process as well. I like the idea of basically highlighting one sense and putting a focus on it. One of the things that I do with girls when I’m cooking for them, is that I’ll incorporate blindfolding them. What that does is it takes away their sensation of sight, and allows them to focus primarily on their sense of taste.
Another opportunity that you can use to accentuate one of the senses is when you blindfold someone, or even blindfold both partners, and just do a lot making out. That’s really going to heighten that experience.
It’s going to take you both to a far more intimate level. You can do a few more things with music and sounds as well. Taking one of the senses away to heighten another sense can definitely be something that will build things up to be a little bit sexy, and take things to a new level.
What kind of settings or environments do you suggest in which you can start to do things like this?
I think that you really need to dedicate just one space to this. This is really important because as you improve your interactions with women, and you start having a little bit more success, you’re going to find that you’ll need an intimate and private venue that can be used for seduction.
For me, there was one room in my house that I liked to keep completely clean and fairly open in which I could do exercises like that.
It needs to be fairly spacious and free of clutter (because chairs and other objects are mighty obstacles when you’re blindfolded), and it needs to be something that you obviously have easy access to. So rather than thinking about multiple spaces, just have the one space that serves a lot of purposes.
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