Don’t over-think making her happy in bed.
Figure out how to connect with her and she’ll have an easier time getting turned on.
You are making more mistakes than you know. Read on…
The big problem is that when guys try to seduce a woman–to get a woman turned on–they try to get her to be okay with sex. The issue is with the underlying assumption: it’s all wrong. The reality is most women are okay with sex. It’s society that hampers their ability to fully let go and enjoy it.
So when we talk about how to satisfy your girlfriend, we’re not actually trying to make her comfortable with sex itself. What we’re trying to do is remove some of the obstacles that prevent her from getting in touch with her sexual energy and completely letting go.
Women love sex, but…
One of the challenges that females face is that they know they love sex. They would love to be able to have sex all the time. Unlike men, females are built so that they continue to orgasm over and over again. Each time they orgasm they want to continue to orgasm more. Men on the other hand usually have the ability to orgasm once or twice and then they’re done (unless they’re appropriately trained in the art of Tantra and sacred sex).
Be cool with a “slut.”
The first thing I let my girlfriend know is that “slut” to me doesn’t mean a girl that goes around and sleeps with a lot of guys. She is not to be viewed as shameful. “Slut” to me stands for Sexually Liberated Uninhibited Type. Essentially, it’s a girl who is enjoying sex.
It’s a girl who is independent in nature, and is someone who is perfectly comfortable with the idea of doing what she wants to do and disregarding what other people think she should do. To me, that’s a quality that should be commended. I would love to see more people that were open to doing that in all aspects of life, not just sex.
Show her you are comfortable with sex.
The second component stopping girls from getting in touch with their feminine side, their sexual nature, and with wanting to have a lot of sex is that they feel if they do, you won’t see her as a potential option down the road. For me, it’s the exact opposite. If a girl is not having sex when she wants to, but the reason she’s not having sex is she thinks other people will think poorly of her, that doesn’t say a lot about her character for me. I would much rather see a girl that disregards other people and goes after what she wants.
So when I clarify those two points in my relationships, I think that opens up girl’s minds, and removes some of the obstacles that prevent them from letting their natural sexual self shine through. If you can work on removing the obstacles, and do that early in the relationship, you should be able to build a powerful sexual connection.
Doing so will also build a connection that will allow you to move forward in all parts of your relationship. The sexual connection will just be the foundation, and you will be able to build a healthy relationship on that foundation.
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