When you ask a girl out on a date, have you tried to ask her to meet you at random places?
What are your thoughts about meeting new girls? I’m really interested to hear what you think in the comments below. I answer each one personally.
I’ve told girls to meet me in all sorts of places for a variety of dates.
Meeting new girls in different places has a huge benefit that has two sides to it.
One side is setting things up, so that every step is a small step towards the possibility of getting her back to your place. The best way to do this would be to organize the places that you go on a date to be somewhere close to where you live already. You might stop by a bar and then you might hop to a local ice cream place.
Since you are so close, it is easy to then get her back to your place.
The other benefit of meeting women at new places is that women are really attracted to passionate men who have a lot going on in their lives. In terms of new places, if I am the sort of guy that has a lot going on, I now have a great opportunity to invite a girl to that particular event. By doing that, she’s going to see what my life is all about. That would make her more attracted to me because she will start to see my passion. She will get an idea what kind of reality I live in. Based on the fact that I’m such an active guy who might have all these amazing friends or always be doing these amazing things, she’s going to want to be a part of that reality.
Do you always plan places to meet certain girls to date?
No… not necessarily.
I actually don’t try it very often at all. But if guys wanted to—especially guys who might not have that much dating experience – they could certainly plan things out. Planning ahead of time can be a great way to make incremental changes, in terms of your style and the way you try to seduce women. By planning and meeting women at any place that makes you comfortable, the process of getting her back to your house is a lot easier and a lot more comfortable for her.
While the above method works, I really think it is much more attractive if you let her get a glimpse of your attractive lifestyle.
For instance, let’s say you have plans to go to a really cool, hip hop party on the weekend. If you meet a girl on Wednesday, invite her to join you at the party. It will be easier for her to join you when you already have a plan. Plus, since you know your plan is awesome, she’ll be doubly impressed. That sort of meeting will give her the chance to see what you’re really like and how you act when you’re in your element. That meeting will take the attention away from trying to impress her and allow her to focus her attraction on who you are and the lifestyle you live.
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