Has your relationship just ended? Are you living in the past? Are you feeling sad? I’m going to show you how to mend a broken heart and move on with your life.
Imagine how good it would be to finally get over an ex. Think about how confident you would be filling your life with fun and exciting things so you attract women and they begin approaching you, wanting to spend time with you.
If you keep thinking about what you’ve lost and chances are you’ll be left feeling sad and depressed. Understanding how to deal with a relationship ending is crucial, especially if you want to move on and feel good again.
The biggest mistake guys make when trying to mend a broken heart is that they live in the past and they do not accept the reality of the situation. A broken heart is devastating and can take a while to mend but you have to remember that a breakup is actually a very healthy thing because your partner was not happy in the relationship.
Don’t worry, you won’t be sad for very long. The key to truly moving on is to understand the concept of acceptance. Below I share with you the steps to mend a broken heart and get back in the game.
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1. Respect Yourself
Never blame yourself for a breakup, but rather treat yourself with respect by not putting yourself down or punishing yourself by living in the past. When you think too much about what you’ve lost, it only amplifies the emotions associated with the breakup and only worsen your broken heart.
Mend a broken heart by doing things that make YOU happy. Life does exist after a breakup, and there are plenty of women out there who have experienced the exact same thing that you have. Do not hold onto the past, but rather live in the present and choose to be happy, because happiness is a choice. Chances are you have spent a lot of time making your partner happy, well now its your turn to make YOURSELF happy.
2. Find Your Passion
It’s fine if you don’t know what you’re passionate about, as long as you are trying to find it. If you are truly serious about mending your broken heart and moving forward, then it’s important that you follow these exact instructions: Write down five activities that you think you may have an interest in.
They can be absolutely anything including writing, studying, bowling or even gold prospecting. Once you have that list, by the end of the week ensure that you participate in one. If you chose studying, do a Google search on a course that you may have an interest in. By the end of your week, apply for that course. Complete all five activities and decide which one you enjoyed the most, or maybe you enjoyed all of them. Either way, incorporate that/those activities into your life on a regular basis. This will give you passion in your life and take your mind off your broken heart, it will also help you to become an interesting person.
3. Remove Clutter and Disorganization
Breakups can signify new beginnings. So when you clean or rearrange your personal space like your bedroom, lounge room or office it will realign your thoughts and begin to make you think clearly again.
A mess can be view upon as a representation of your thoughts. A messy room entails scattered thoughts, so clean your room, change the position of your bed, paint your walls, or even rearrange the icons on your PC desktop; anything. Take advantage of the situation and reorganize your life.
4. Do Not Be Bitter
It’s crucial that you understand that broken hearts are normal and they are natural. Breakups can be difficult because they’re often interpreted a rejection. However, you need to understand that a breakup isn’t actually rejection at all, but rather a way that someone expresses that they are not getting what they want or need out of the relationship.
This is completely fine, as everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion and choice. Respect this and let go of any revenge, bitterness, or vengeance you may hold. Why? Because these emotions tie you up with the past, and also prevent you from living in the present and experiencing true happiness.
5. Let Time Mend Your Broken Heart
One of the best remedies for a broken heart is time. Not only will time heal a relationship ending, but also it will help you move on. So preoccupy your life with things that you have an interest in, that make you happy, and that you enjoy.
Utilize this time effectively and efficiently by doing this and not being pessimistic, beating yourself down, feeling sad, and thinking about what you’ve lost. Time is the most valuable, non-renewable currency. So it is a complete waste to hold onto thoughts of what you’ve lost, which only make you sad and negative; you need to be confident and happy.
When you begin applying these tips, not only will it make you feel good again, but also it will help you move on. Now if you truly want to take control and charge of your life and experience true happiness, then you need to read the Pandora’s Box. This will give you the boost and confidence you need to take charge of your life and dating game.
You’ll start to feel ready to get back in the game and have the confidence to succeed like never before. If you’re ready to take your game to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL, watch my FREE video while it’s still online. After you learn a few simple secrets, you’ll always be able to pick up beautiful women…