Can moving a woman to a new city speed up your relationship with her? Can that be helpful in dating?
Moving a girl to a new city, I think you’ve got to careful about when you do that in the relationship. There’s a right time and a wrong time. If it’s too early in the relationship, it’s too big of a commitment on your behalf. She’ll start to wonder what is it you want to get out of the relationship.
What are your thoughts about moving to a new city for dating? I’m really interested to hear what you think in the comments below. I answer each one personally.
Girls are actually fairly reluctant to jump feet first into a relationship.
They like to be able to just dip their toe in the water, get a sense of what you’re like and get a sense of what spending time with you is going to like. She might like to continue to keep her options open for other suitors. As they progressively dip their toe in the water and they get a little bit deeper, then they’ll get to a point where it’s much easier for them to jump all the way in.
That being said, if you meet a girl and you really like her but she lives in a different city,encourage her and invite her to come and visit you. That’s always a good thing. That sets a frame that this girl is going to work for you and your attention. It sets the frame that she’s willing to go over and above to basically please you and look after you.
I think that inviting a girl to your place can be a really good test for a guy to find out exactly where he’s at.
If you meet a girl and you’ve maybe been on a date, if you can actually get her to come and visit you, she is going to be open to doing all sorts of crazy things. It’s almost a sure sign that things are going to move in a pretty sexual direction.
I’ll often do that on the first date.
I started doing this because my date plans were always structured in a way that let me progressively move a girl from our starting point back to my house. Then I decided that I’d just skip it straight to my house. I found that, without fail, if a girl was comfortable meeting me at my place before the date, then she was comfortable with having sex with me.
Now, the other thing that we haven’t talked about is, when is the right time to invite a girl to holiday in a new city with you?
That has to be answered by every guy individually. I think if he’s getting to a point where he’s contemplating spending more and more time with a girl and moving things in an exclusive direction, that can be the right time. The very nature of her agreeing to spend time alone with you in another city, it will basically cause her to invest significantly in the relationship with you.
That step will often be the point where the two of you will actually acknowledge to each other that you’re ready to move things forward. Be careful with this step though. It’s often difficult to move things backwards once you’ve been here.
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