Nice Guys Never Get Laid

You might think that nice guys never get laid and it’s simply not true.  You can absolutely get girls by being nice.

Nice guys never get laid

Nice guys get laid all the time... if they are honest about their intentions

Do you have any questions about being a nice guy, I’d love to hear them in the comments below. I answer each one personally.

You have been lied to.

Now, there is just a type of nice guy that doesn’t work when it comes to being good with women and that’s the doormat totally safe, a sexual, wimpy, non-assertive nice guy.

This isn’t really a nice guy at all.

This guy is a pushover, so don’t mistake being a nice guy for being a wimp because they are two very separate things. The problem with a lot of nice guys is they are not honest. They try and get girls by being friends first, which actually realize this is quite a manipulative strategy. They are trying to fool the girl into thinking that they just want to be friends, in order to try and pull out some sort of sexual move later, but unfortunately this doesn’t really work.

Friends first is not actually a very good dating strategy at all. 

This is the problem with nice guys, they lack honesty. But in saying that, I call myself quite a nice guy in a lot of ways.  I like to be friendly to people, I like to contribute, I like to help others.

I think this is a very natural part of my personality, and something that I really take pride in and I feel it’s a big part of who I am as a person, but I think this is very different to the idea of nice that a lot of people think.

Nice Guys Never Get Laid…

When a lot of people think nice, they really think about a guy with no killer instinct, a guy who can’t close the deal and a guy that can go hard after what he wants.

In sport, the last thing you want to be is a real nice guy, but that’s a really good illustration for the fact that you can be very good at sport and be quite aggressive but ultimately you can be quite a nice guy and that’s what you’ve got to have to be good with women, you’ve got to have different elements to you personality.

In a way, you’ve got to be a little bit like a Rubik’s cube in there is different sides to you, you’ve got different colors.

In one hand you can be very nice, gentle and caring and kind and on the other hand sometimes you can be tough and you can be masculine and you can even be a little bit aggressive.

So being good with girls often is about showing different sides to yourself, not being one dimensional and most certainly you are not going to get girls if you look to square or you look to straight or your that typical nice guy who looks like he’s been dressed by his grandmother, that’s not a nice guy at all, that’s just someone that is not attractive to women.

So don’t get them confused.

I would encourage you to get good with girls without being an asshole, and I would encourage you to get good with girls without being manipulative.

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There are so many ways you can be good with girls by being a nice guy, you’ve just got to be the sort of nice guy6 that still goes after what he wants, makes no apologies and is able to get things in life that he deserves.

Ways to push your comfort zone this week:

1) Join Toastmasters or take a theater class.

2) Drive home a different route every day for a week and shop at a completely new grocery store.

3) Learn a new sport.

4) Compliment three strangers each day for a week.

5) Volunteer at an elderly care center, a children’s cancer clinic, or an AIDS hospice center.

It’s only through taking action that you can experience growth and change. You can’t stop being a nice guy sitting at home on your computer.

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