Keep in mind that you’ve ALWAYS got options and that you can choose to get a girlfriend, or have as many women as you like…
But you have to ask yourself one important question…
The key to getting a girlfriend (or more) is to becoming more attractive as a person. How attractive are you? Most guys won’t have the option of having a lot of girlfriends… because they just aren’t attractive enough. Do you want to be more attractive, so you can have options for one or many girlfriends?
Many clients that I work with start at a really low place. In the DiCarlo Coaching program though… as they start to understand how women work and the philosophies of attractive men… then they will start to feel momentum build. Maybe they’ll even be able to approach girls without any fear or hesitation. Then they might find that girls become more attracted and they start getting more confident. Maybe they’ll have their first sexual experience in years… sometimes it is their ever.
The same approach can work for you.
Once you have success… then you can incorporate better philosophies and learn a new skill set that girls will find attractive. Girls will start to see you as an attractive option to date. Here is where guys find themselves in a complete predicament. It is a good situation though (I’m betting you can’t wait to be here). They like a girl and the idea of being in a relationship, but they also like the thought of exploring other possibilities.
Do you want one girlfriend or more?
Generally this is the reason most guys come to get coaching in the first place. But at the same time they are enjoying the process of this self-discovery, personal development, and certainly enjoying the idea of multiple women seeing them as attractive. What if you had multiple women that wanted to be with you?
You would feel like the weight of the world is crushing on you, right? I encourage guys in that situation to step back and recognize any decision you make doesn’t have to be binding. You can make a decision and then three months down the track look to change that decision.
So if you decide to get yourself into an exclusive relationship and have one girlfriend, it’s not necessarily permanent. If it’s not working out for you, you can be honest, authentic, and have that discussion with your girlfriend. Tell her you need more space.
No decision has to be permanent.
Likewise if you decide not being in a relationship is the right fit for you now, there’s nothing saying it won’t be the right fit for you in a later point in time. If you are honest with the person you were seeing, you will be surprised how often they are open on continuing something on a more casual basis. The right time to get into a relationship is a decision that ultimately every guy needs to make from his heart. It’s not an intellectual decision. Go with your heart and get a sense of what feels right. When you make that decision, stick to it. In a month’s time or a few weeks’ time, go back and look at it.
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Remember that you always have options. Whether you want one girl, or twenty, use these techniques to get the women you really want…
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