Online Dating Sites: Five Easy Hacks for Better Results

How to get better results from online dating sites.

Between you and me, online dating is a hoax. Not that you can’t get dates on there, because you can.
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Online Dating Sites: Five Easy Hacks for Better Results
Finding the right one online, can be made easier with a few helpful hints.

(I want to help you get better at online dating. So if you take 38 seconds and share one of your frustrations in the comments… I’ll respond personally.)

The dirty secret of online dating websites…

You can learn how to meet women online. In fact, you can meet so many women online that you can have a full-time sex life without ever leaving your house. Instead, what I am referring to are the companies who own online dating sites. These companies have a dirty secret. Online dating sites want you to fail over and over again, because the owners want you frustrated, so they can bill your credit card. This is how online dating sites make their money… they fail you.

In this article, you’ll discover five hacks that you can use to dramatically increase your success with online dating. You’ll find out how these sites try to keep you from being successful.

1. Choosing the right profile picture.

The Hack: Ever wonder what the perfect dating profile picture is? Surprisingly, it’s not the six-pack pic (studies show most women aren’t into guys with six-packs) strangely enough. It’s not pictures that show how rich or powerful you are. Instead, the best picture to post is one in which you are sleeping! Have a friend take a picture of you while you’re sleeping. Then, add it to your profile pictures, but not your main one. Try making it picture three or four. You’ll see responses to your messages increase. This works because it shows your vulnerable side.

Why online dating sites are hiding it from you: I’ve got to give the dating websites a break on this one, because they simply do not know any better. They bombard you with pictures where girls fall for jacked, rich guys. They are lying to you – even though their research tells them the truth! For example, I took the six-pack study from a result.

2. Finding smart, sexy women.

The Hack: Ever wonder where the women with brains and beauty are hiding? You’ll never find them if you look through profiles, because you’re going to get booby blinded and veer off course.

It’s impossible to tell whether a woman has a good personality or not when you look at her profile, especially because she probably rewrote and edited it four or five times. Most dating websites have a section where men and women share their opinions about dating, sex, and relationships. These forums can be goldmines. Looking through forum posts can tell you a lot about the woman who wrote them. You may even find a woman you really like: a woman with a good head on her shoulders, and a pretty, curvy body.

Why online dating sites are hiding it from you: In this case, it’s your own damn fault. Survey after survey states that online dating site forums are nerdy, so they aren’t promoted. Most online dating sites don’t even link to their forums. You might have to dig through a few links to find these magical places.

How can you cruise for smart, sexy women without looking like a nerd? It’s easy. You find her profile on the forums of the online dating sites and then send her a message out of the blue (like you stumbled across her profile). You reap the benefits of the forums without the social risk of posting on them. Genius!

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3. Avoiding the wrong advice.

The Hack: A major feature on most dating websites allows you to send a woman a gift, along with your message. You are told that the gift will make women respond to messages better. In fact, most websites give you a message format to follow. They’re wrong!

Do the exact opposite of what they recommend. Never include any bribe for reading your message. Instead, keep your message short and to the point. Tell her, “Hey, I saw your profile and had to message you. Here’s why,” and then tell her what you liked about her and her profile. Then ask her a question so she can message you back. Being honest works better than most dating websites’ template messages.

Why online dating sites are hiding it from you: It’s in their best interest to give you this information, even if it doesn’t work. Gifts usually cost something. It could cost points you get from being on their particular website. Sometimes, it’s money. Either way, these online dating sites make money when you send gifts. Sometimes it’s your money and sometimes it’s advertising money. Their goal is to make money, not to get you women.

4. Recognizing how dating sites are using fake profiles.

The Hack: Ever notice that six gorgeous women with big boobs are just waiting for you at They even live in your area! The truth is these women are called plants. Bigger online dating sites use geolocation tracking to figure out which city you live in. Then, they’ll show you stock pictures, but tell you these girls are waiting for you. It’s a lie!

Instead of joining online dating sites you haven’t seen for yourself, try dating websites like, use a trial account, and check out the women there for yourself. Only join if you see women you like.

Why online dating sites are hiding it from you: The reason is cold, hard cash. They know men want to meet hot women online. We don’t surf dating websites to meet average-looking women. To get you to sign up, they put plants in their ads.

Even worse, most websites employ a few hundred plant profiles: fake profiles with fake pics that are designed to make you message them. They know once you send your first message, you will find it hard to quit. If you don’t get a message back from that super-hot girl, then you may have sent a bad message, or you could have sent it to a plant.

5. Understanding the male/female ratio.

The Hack: Think it’s some sort of cruel prank your messages never get returned, even by women who are average-looking? Dating websites don’t tell you that the ratio of women to men is approximately 1 woman to every 4 men. The ratio is skewed because hot women can meet men wherever they go. In fact, dozens of men approach them for dates. They don’t need to go online.

This means every woman is getting four times as many messages as her profile deserves. This makes your message just one of a hundred, instead of something special or unique. To make her read your message, you must use hacks. Make your messages look personal, and don’t hit on her right away. Try using the subject line: “Hey, noticed something about u…” Then use the message you learned in hack three.

Why dating websites are hiding it from you: Would you sign up for an online dating site if they told you, “We have four times as many men as women!” Nope. Didn’t think so.

(Again… please take 38 seconds and share one of your frustrations in the comments. I’ll respond personally.) 

And now that you know how to hack online dating sites…

These are five secrets that the online dating giants are terrified you’ll find out. You now have the tools to make online dating much, much easier. I can hear you thinking, “If only there were a way to hack real-life dating, as well.”

Lucky for you, there is. I’ve spent my whole life hacking real-life dating. In fact, I’ve come up with some real-life hacks that put these online dating hacks to shame. I share these with you, time to time, on this blog. For more specialized hacks, you should check out my programs. 

For example, learn more about conversation hacks that make talking to women easier by guaranteeing you know the 3 simple questions, and 30 innocent words to drop into any conversation. 

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  1. Vin: I have to thank you for informing me of all this. I belonged to three of these sites and it did not take me long to realize that these people were scamming me. I NEVER got to actually chat with anybody. What a farce. I am an older man and maybe not exactly what all of these great babes want, but I got so frustrated with the way they run it. I am now off them all. I got off after my subscription was over and buried my e-mail address in the last message I sent all the ladies I liked. Never had one word since. Keep letting people know about this farce so guys won’t get hooked into a situation like that. Unless we do something that you recommended they just push a button and a message like “How are you today? I think there must be a better way, so I am laying off all of them, but might try the “bug me not” you mentioned. My real problem is with the one lady I want who is a Modern Woman and I am unable to get out of being a “friend”. I sure look forward to a day I can change her mind.

  2. You’re not kidding. On you will get all kinds of action until you pay money then suddenly all your flirts stop. Its true they use fake women to flirt with you. It happened to me. Also on paysites they let non-paying members set up a profile and you could be messaging someone who can’t respond. The number of non-paying women is huge. Like 80%. Theses non paying women can’t even see who messaged them until they pay money. Most are not paying money just to see who messaged them. You think a hot sexy woman who has tons of options offline is going to pay money to join a website? If they do they are looking for perfect. Take it from me. I don’t recommend online dating. I’ve been on PLENTYOFFISH for a year and a half and never got 1 date or phone number even. I almost never get a response either. I only message attractive quality women though but still. I even tried going below my standard just for experimentation. Same thing, no response. Just think how it feels getting no response from a chick you wouldn’t even look twice at offline. Man, if that doesn’t f**k with your pride I don’t know what does. I’m not bad with women at all. In fact offline I always get hot women checking me out everywhere I go, daily. Online dating bites. I even paid to have my profile written for me and still don’t get responses, ever! I have had a couple women talk to me but nothing lately. I’m a decent looking young guy too. A lot of women just want to talk for weeks at a time too if you do get a chick to talk to you. Most have no intention of dating you. I have only got lucky 2 times in the past 2 years with online dating. Is that even worth it? I will try the sleeping pic “hack” Everything else I already knew and have been using. Thanks for the article though.

  3. Hey Vin, Bugmenot doesn’t work, it’s pretty crap if you ask me

  4. I totally agree with the comment above. Many dating gurus keep emphasizing that if you don’t get many responses online, it means that you don’t know how to communicate with women. Well, I learned a lot from some of their programs and they have helped me with people that I meet in real life. However, they have not made much difference with my success online.

    The overwhelming majority of messages rarely get replied, unless you are talking to older or obese women. All together, during the last few years, I had numerous phone numbers that turned into flakes and many dates, where the women were much heavier than what they looked in their pictures. I probably slept or had short term relationships with 6 or 7 women from Plenty of Fish in 6 years. So, is it really worth the effort? This is not lack of confidence either; it doesn’t matter what you write in the message, how cocky and funny, charming, the amount of interest that you show, or what type of leadership skills you display. A lot of them delete the messages before even reading them.

    I do agree that meeting women in normal situations is a lot easier. Think about numbers… Writing or sending first messages to 7000 women, to get 700 replies, to get 180 dialogues that have at least 4 messages back and forth, to get 100 phone numbers, to get 40 real dates, to sleep with 6 women. Hmmmm…..

  5. One thing that I forgot to mention, where Vince is totally right is: many profiles in sites like E-Harmony are from non paying members who can not even read messages or reply back. The hot women in are getting mobbed with dozens of messages a day; so they can’t even read most of them. A lot of the women in Plenty of Fish are already in relationships or going through separations, just looking to see what is out there and not looking to date anyone seriously, unless they are older or more than 50 pounds overweight.

    Plenty of Fish does have a small percentage of women who are serious about meeting someone, but these are the ones who do not stay in the site very long. As soon as they meet somebody, they get seriously involved and quit online dating. The only way to find these decent women is to catch them as soon as they join the site and before they receive massive amount of communication from guys who write like idiots and scare them away

  6. Makailee /

    You can always tell an expert! Thanks for contributing.

  7. Well, actually, the “plant” thing probably isn’t true.

    The fact is, plenty of hot women really do use the online dating sites. But unless you’re an equally hot man, they aren’t going to write back to you. That hot 28-year-old is really there, and she’s really looking — the trouble is, a lot of very handsome and very wealthy 28 year old guys are also messaging her. Who’s she really going to write back to? Him, or you?

    Ask yourself: Why would a gorgeous 27-year-old who looks like a model be interested in dating you, at all? Maybe the problem is that you’re messaging a lot of women who don’t find you interesting or attractive.

    If you’re an average guy who can only manage to date average-looking women offline, then you can only

    Online dating sites don’t provide you with some kind of magical elixir that allows you to date women far above your level and far out of your league. Online dating sites are just like any other venue for meeting women — the most desirable women are only interested in the most desirable men.

    The key to online dating success is knowing what league you belong in, and playing within that league.

    When you keep on writing to women who are way out of your league, you’re setting yourself up to fail. Instead of crying about the women who don’t want you, focus on the women who DO want you.

  8. Mark /

    I’m a man who is 41 yrs old & divorced, and have been on Plenty of Fish for about 2 months. I can honestly tell you that, if you set up your profile in a fresh, creative, interesting way, and learn how to write good introductory emails, you CAN get women to respond!

    I’ve gotten literally hundreds of emails from women; 20-30 phone numbers; met with 17 of them in person & “closed the deal” with 10 of them. (So far) They’ve been between the ages of 27 – 45, AND…. very attractive.

    I’m not saying this to brag; I’m saying it because FREE sites like POF or OKcupid actually DO work. (IF, you’re good at communicating & know how to push a woman’s emotional buttons & make her want to know more about you just by reading your profile & message)

    I was clueless about online dating 3-4 months ago when I originally signed up with
    So, I did some internet searches for information on how to be successful, or at least learn some tips / tricks. After reading EVERYTHING I could find over the next 2-3 weeks, I decided to give POF a try, using my new-found arsenal of info. And, in the first day of posting my profile I had 15-20 emails from REAL women.

    So again, if you’re not getting replies, you’re doing something wrong.

    Here’s a tip for ya:
    Sign up with a “fake” account… one you’re not actually going to use, and browse the MEN’S profiles for a day or two, just to see how their profiles are written. You’ll get a really good idea of how NOT to write a profile.

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