You’ve got her attention. You’ve been messaging “long enough” and it’s time to take it to the next level.
Do you know how to make the leap and meet her for the first time?
Don’t screw it up. Instead, take a few short minutes and discover everything you need to know from this quick article.
Chatting through instant messaging can be a challenge. It can make expressing yourself difficult, and it can be challenging to understand a girl and connect with them as well by sending an online dating message from your inbox. Because of this, it’s always best to get texting as soon as possible, or even better, exchange Skype addresses. Not only can this prevent many nightmare online dating scenarios, but it can help you to bond and feel confident in that all-important first date.
What you want to create is a vibe where the more she messages you, the more she gets excited about the prospect of meeting you. By sending her more messages, you can show her the fun and playful vibe that makes you a catch.
Indirect, yet direct: The best approach for arranging a date
Being subtle yet forward is the perfect combination. Tell her that you’re keen to catch up with her, and compliment her. Explain how she sounds fun and playful, and how you think that you would have a great time. Then, show flexibility, and ask her what the best night of the week is for her – firmly putting the ball in her court.
Personally, I wouldn’t ask her if she would like to catch up with me. After all, if you have set up your profile in a way that demonstrates that you are an attractive, confident and successful guy, she would be mad not to! What’s more, if you’re sending messages regularly, it’s a natural next move.
When you ask her what the best day of the week is to catch up, you can tell by her reply if it’s a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’ to the first date. For example, if Wednesday or Friday is best for her, she is agreeing that we are going to go on a date. Meanwhile, if she says that this week is pretty challenging, but asks about the week after, it’s still an acknowledgment that meeting up would be nice.
Why the place where you meet for the first time DOESN’T matter
Whether you’re meeting in a club or a café, the scenario won’t be too different. Focus on going to a laidback, casual place where you can just sit down and have a couple of drinks, some wine or coffee. One of the things with online relationships can be how experienced the girl you are meeting is at these first encounters. Remember: sometimes, girls in the online dating world will be going on multiple dates in a night. They will be doing short, choppy, 20 to 30-minute dates. Don’t be offended by that, as this first rendezvous is a great sign!
If you make a good impression in that situation, you could find that she will either cancel her other date, or she will organize to have a longer date with you next time. It may just take a little longer to build the momentum and that is really the only difference. By being flexible, discreet and showing your fun, charming side, you won’t need online dating site tips for much longer.
What will you do if you LIKE her offline too? Do you have any clue about what to say to get her to say yes to a 2nd date…or beyond? (You can use this to get other women online too!)
Start with 3 killer questions that hack into her mind and give you instant access to her thoughts and feelings at any time…
Access is POWERFUL. You can get anything you want. She might fall in love with you. She’ll definitely become addicted to you and when you unleash these 30 innocent words she’ll get WET (and won’t know why!) Google won’t let me write it so you’ll have to watch it here:
Warning: If you prefer to only have advice that tells you to just “be yourself” then this isn’t for you. This is for Real Men who are willing to do what it takes to get the woman of their dreams. I can’t promise this video will be up for long so make sure that you check it out before you lose your chance to win her over.