When you approach a woman, is it good to just go up and be real straight forward and simple, maybe asking a question like, “Hey, my name is so and so. I saw you across the room,” and start a conversation?
Should you pay attention to what she’s doing and take a guess at her personality before you ask her if she would like to do something sometime?
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I have to say in the real world, I have found that doesn’t really work when it comes to dating girls.
You might get a good reaction. You might feel good about it. But in terms of actually getting girls to go out on dates and have sex, I have found that method to be pretty ineffective.
During the daytime, I have found that being very conversational and also being aware of the subtleties works really well. When I talk about subtleties, I’m referring to little things that are happening outside the conversations. For instance, let’s say you meet a girl during the day. If at all possible, you want to walk with her. You don’t want to stop and just keep talking to her in a stationary kind of way. That gets very awkward, very fast. If I meet a girl during the day, I start walking with her right away, whether we are walking together towards somewhere or we just happen to be walking in the same direction. I try and keep us both moving. Sometimes a girl will actually feel inclined to stop, but I will keep making her walk with me.
I have found that is a very good way of making her feel comfortable. It mimics what happens when we meet a good friend of ours. If we are walking and see a good friend of ours, we probably won’t just stand in the middle of the mall for 20 minutes talking to them. We will probably end up walking somewhere together.
Let’s say you meet a girl in a stationary place like on a bus or while you guys are sitting down in a VIP room in a club. You have to sit there with her whether the conversation goes well or not.
Are there other things to keep in mind?
I think if you were to do something like get a girl to a coffee shop or go shopping with her, that is a very good thing. If you can do that, you’ve stepped into what we call “instant dating.” If you can do instant dating with a girls you meet during the day, your chances of going on more dates with them dramatically increase.
When you can get a girl to spend time with you right after you meet, your chances of seeing her again literally multiply.
For a lot of guys, I think what is going to help them the most when it comes to meeting girls during the day is to relax into it. Realize that she is probably going to be more nervous than you. A lot of girls are really keen to meet a guy during the day.
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