She's Sitting There - Wondering What's Taking You So Long-- Are You Finally Going To Go Talk To Her?
Dating at first can be scary…but it doesn’t have to be. Learn how to embrace the fear and push yourself to meet hot new women.
It’s this whole new experience.
1. Accept You Will Make Mistakes
You’re one-on-one with women and you have no idea what you’re doing; but, like anything, it’s a skill set that can be learned. The reality is you’re probably going to make mistakes at first. In fact, I remember making plenty of mistakes, and if it weren’t for those mistakes, I probably wouldn’t be as good as I am today.
It’s a natural part of getting better, and for a lot of guys, the reason that they’re not getting better is that they’re too afraid to make mistakes.
As Wayne Gretzky would say, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” Even should you make mistakes, there will always be more of a chance of you getting success just by the fact that you keep persisting and keep working towards getting better. Some of the things you want to keep focused on are that you’ve got to understand confidence comes from experience.
The only way to get experience is to go out there, put yourself out there, and try more things.
2. Dates, Not Phone Numbers Are What Counts
One of the things I want to emphasize, for guys who have been in the dating game for a little while, is don’t get too wrapped up in numbers. I have definitely had times where I was getting the numbers of girls, but I wasn’t following through with them. You’ll get a lot more success a lot sooner if you follow up on all your numbers and get into one-on-one situations more often.
If you want to get better at this whole dating scene, you need to be going out on dates at least once or twice a week at a minimum, if not more.
If you can start to do this, increasing your dating incrementally over the first week or two, over a couple of months your success will have skyrocketed beyond your belief and you’ll be more comfortable and confident than you’ve ever been before. Focus on making this happen. Think about all the different ways you can possibly make this happen.
For instance, do you have numbers that you haven’t followed up on, that you can follow up on right now?
Have you got female friends you can ask to set you up with their friends?
Do you have a cousin you can call and let know that you are on the lookout?
Follow up all leads.
3. Have More of a “Results” Focus
Get hungry about going on dates, even if the girls aren’t your idea of perfection.
At the start, you don’t want to be too picky. Sure, you don’t want to completely lower your standards to a ridiculous state, but you want to be comfortable with meeting and going out on as many dates as humanly possible.
Do you have questions about overcoming your fear of dating? Ask in the comments below and I’ll answer each one personally.
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