Would you like to know how to go out on the weekend and know exactly how to pull women in a club? I’m about to give you a guide that you can use, and this is very fresh in my mind, because I’m going to recall some of what I saw last Saturday night.
Girls in bars offer what I like to call "blink and you'll miss it" signs
I went out nightclubbing with a few friends, and I saw a ton of girls that I believe were fairly easy to pick up, and wanted to meet guys to have sex. Here’s the thing, though: a TON of guys that were doing it all wrong. If you avoid the following five mistakes, you’re going to have a great sex life.
The five mistakes every guy must avoid
- When approaching a girl and meeting women, not touching her. This is probably the biggest mistake I see. Guys approach girls, they talk to them, but there’s very little physical contact. You can even make it as gentle as just putting your hand on her lower back and touching her softly. This shows your intent, and it shows you’ve actually got a set of balls, but I constantly see guys approach girls, and they don’t do this at all. It’s a massive mistake.
- Getting drunk is NOT how to seduce a woman. Sometimes having one or two drinks can actually be good to calm the nerves and chill you out, but I see a lot of guys get far too drunk for their own good. They’re slurring and becoming messy, and if they approach a girl, she doesn’t feel good about herself because she thinks you’re only approaching her because you’re drunk, and not because she’s attractive. See if you can limit your alcohol intake. In fact, a lot of guys I know that are very confident with women only started to get really good when they went out nightclubbing and to bars and didn’t drink any alcohol at all. When you do this, what you’re actually doing is fixing your anxiety, not masking it with alcohol.
- Being intimidated by attractive women. Just because women are attractive doesn’t mean they don’t want to meet a guy and take him home. I see a lot of guys feel like they need to stay within their league. They pick up women that they feel are achievable and gettable, rather than the ones they really want. Why not go for it? You may as well. You’re probably never going to see her again, and you will have forgotten the experience just a few days later. In fact, often the very attractive women intimidate guys so much that they are scared to approach them, so what you’ve got to remember is that they’re just people like everyone else, and because not as many guys are approaching the hot women, you may be in a better statistical chance.
- DON’T be too polite and nice. I hate to give you some bad news, if this is you, but you’re not going to pick up women ever, by being a nice guy. Seriously, you’ve got to be a little bit aggressive, you’ve got to be a little bit even offensive, confrontational, and you’ve got to take risks. Now, in our modern day sanitized society, a lot of guys are just too polite. They don’t want to make a girl feel uncomfortable, they don’t want to bring attention to themselves, they’re scared of somehow getting in trouble. The problem is that this is a terrible way to get laid. You’ve got to live a little dangerously and be willing to risk a drink on top of your head in order to get some results. The guys that don’t take chances and push the envelope don’t get results with women.
- Not being able to read the signs. If a girl looks at you, talks to you, approaches you, you’ve got to realize that this is a massive indicator. A lot of the time, guys don’t realize that when a girl just gives them even a little bit of eye contact, this often means that she wants to take him home and have sex with him, but a lot of guys want to get some massive permission and they want a sign. Even worse, they want to know that they’re totally sure before they take a risk.
You’ve got to realize that women are going to give you very small signals, but these tiny little signals are massive indicators. She might touch you once or give you a compliment or ask you a question. Often, this is a green light that this is a girl you’re likely to have sex with, so you’ve got to be able to magnify these positive signals and make the most of them. I think a lot of guys just generally aren’t very good at taking advantage of opportunities. It’s a little like being a business. If you can’t identify and take advantage of opportunities, then you’ll never be rich.
The guys that are good at business have some sort of special sensor for opportunities. It’s the same with women. You’ve got to be a real opportunist and you’ve got to be able to make the most of them. In an average night out, when you go to a bar or nightclub, each and every guy gets at least two or three opportunities to have sex. It’s just whether you see them and whether you can act on them. That’s all that matters.
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